i dont get it..i see girls all the time that are treated like trash but there are plenty of nice guys out there that will treat them wonderfully (including me)
2006-09-02 16:41:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they stick because they are faithful. now if you saying that there are plenty of nice guys out there, there are surely many, but the question is, do nice guys have the guts to approach women? that's the reason why most women end up with jerks, because only the jerks have the guts to approach them.
2006-09-02 16:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in this exact situation right now. It's because when we're together and everything is fine...we're totally in love. But then he goes all bipolar on me and decides he doesn't want me anymore. I'm left still feeling those sweet feelings of being in love and will do anything to stay feeling that way. It's all a game he's playing. He makes me feel like I can only feel this good w/ him and that he can take it away anytime. That keeps me hanging on. I love him. Plus, there's no guarantee I will find a really great guy if I leave him for good.
2006-09-02 23:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with the answer by ntstrss - usually the girl is nice and therefore stays in the relationship to be faithful and wud gladly go for guys lik you if ......... that's right if you just casually talked to them and see where it leads. Usually guys that s-h-i-t on girls in relationships r really gud at just talkin to them to begin wit - that's why they end up wit them...but that's not to say u can't *** in & casually talk to them to see where it leads...particularly if u no the girl already likes u...Also cos these guys aren't sensitive at all they neva pick up he signs at the start that the girl is uncomfortable, and the girl sense they relaxed easy manner and the rest as they say is history..
2006-09-02 23:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a double edge sword. There is good that goes with that bad that you dont see and its usually just enough to keep her around hoping thing will get better. Guys do it too. I have had guys chase me for years and put up with lots of sh*t. We like who we like, most times they treat you like sh*t. Why is it like that ? I have no f*cking idea but its the same for both girls and guys. The one you like treats you like sh*t and the one that treats you good your not really into.
2006-09-02 23:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..in the first place..boys always act like a nice guy at first..tats why girls follow them.
and when boys get tired of them..they treat them badly hoping girls would ask to break..
but girls cannot believe tat their boy treat them so differently and so find reasons to cover it..
and so the girl accepts it...and the main reason why?
because tat girl loves him..
2006-09-02 23:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by jlaclovemum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
always happens to me. I guess i just hate being single so much that i'd rather believe my guy will change or believe that it's better to put up with it if all my family and friends think he's great
2006-09-02 23:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by misomeow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of these girls might be insecure, they might feel like they can't get anyone else, or sometimes they may depend on their partner, financially.
2006-09-02 23:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because of the emotial abuse they r scared they r not good enuf 4 n e 1 eles i know i've been there more than once
2006-09-02 23:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just insecure or too comfortable within a relationship. you are just on the outside looking in so you really don't know what's going on in their private life.
2006-09-02 23:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no self-respect or self-esteem, and no morals. Hell, they probably don't even know the meaning of the word.
2006-09-02 23:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋