ok this girl is 14 and is 3 years younger than me i like her and she likes me i dont want sex i just want a realationship what should i do??
2006-09-02 16:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by soccer_bballdude1989 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she even asked me out but i told her i would think about it
2006-09-02 18:01:35 · update #1
go for it. have a relationship with her. 3 years is not that big a difference in age. and as you both get older it will matter less and less.
2006-09-02 16:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by eboney 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur waay 2 old for her sorry. maybe when she's 17 and ur 20 it'd be better. im saying this as a 14 yr old myself. its kinda creepy when guys that much older than u ask u out. makes a girl wish she'd carried Mace and a rape whistle, even if the guy isnt after sex. we just never kno.
2006-09-02 16:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Cynnie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it really depends. especially on you, because you are the "responsible" one and you are the lead. also, if she is immature, she could be trouble, or after something, if you feel like you know her enough to start a relationship, then make a connection. maybe you don't have to date right now (her parents probably won't let her anyway) just talk and get to know each other even better, then you can be sure that you don't make a mistake.
let me know what happens!
miss_matt_all_that_87@yahoo.com
good luck
2006-09-02 16:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that a 14 yr old still acts like a 14 yr old.She may not act like it in front of you but she still is a child.And kids that age can change their minds at will. Not to mention you are of accountable age and can get in trouble.
2006-09-02 16:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by 2shy2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away because you could get into trouble. If she is that important to you, you shouldn't mind waiting a couple years for her. You are both young. And you need to experience life more before you start a serious relationship.
2006-09-02 16:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by momof2borninmarch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lucky. If you'll have a relationship, you'll be like her guide because your older and wiser.
I have a relative and her husband is 9 years older than her.
You wouldn't even see the difference.
I know this is just relationship and not bout marriage. I'm just giving you examples...haha
2006-09-02 16:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Wish E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i'm basically in this situation but i'm the 14 year old girl. lol seriously...this is tough. okay, so you don't want sex and just a relationship, that's totally fine. see how she feels. does she act like she likes you too? if so, ask her out! she'll probably say yes!
2006-09-02 16:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by love_me_4_me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember 14 will get you 20...
2006-09-02 16:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Thelizardking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If what you say about your feelings is true, don't worry about it. Just tell her what you told us, and see what she says.
Of course, she can always say, no thanks, in which case you must respect that. Or maybe she is OK with it, but not her family or friends are not. In which case you should read Shakespeare for guidance. "The course of true love never did run smooth."
2006-09-02 16:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Zardoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. i am 14 and like a guy who is 3 years older then me....but i dont think he feels the same way about me. definately go for it, but make sure u dont take advantage of her.
2006-09-02 16:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋