Im not gay but im kinda seeing this gay guy cause he loves to buy me things, and give me money. we've been "dating" for about 3 wks. Im about to dump him cause he wants to have sex and I dont want money that bad. am I wrong for doing that 2 him?
2006-09-02 16:31:26 · 15 answers · asked by Fridays Child 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dang pretty boy that sounds harse, lol. maybe u should go ahead and dump him and never ever do that again. using someone for money and material objects is a bad thing to do. but its your life, im not one to judge.
2006-09-02 16:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Ennael♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not immoral and neither you are wrong in getting away from him.
He's gay who uses money to attract you and he presumes perhaps that when he buys you things and gives you money, you will agree with what he wants to do with you. At least, you are still in the right track of your mind for not having giving in to having sex with him.
Just tell him but with compassion and understanding that you don't want to have sex with him not because you don't like him but because you don't like to have an affair with another guy. Tell him that your heart will be for a woman and that there's no time in your whole existence that you wanted to have a relationship with a guy like you. Then say that you are sorry that you have to tell him all those things but tell him that you just want to be honest with him. Then thank him for everything that he has done for you and gracefully exit from his life. Good luck.
2006-09-02 16:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are. Using someone who cares about you, or at least has a different picture of your relationship is wrong. You should apologize and give back the things you accepted from him.
2006-09-02 16:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should of told him in the beginning that you are not gay how would you feel if someone was to use you like you did him it's going to hurt him when you tell him the truth put yourself in his shoes think about it it hurts doesn't it
2006-09-02 16:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by applepiekiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immoral? Yes!
Mean? Yes!
Selfish?Yes!
Cruel? Yes!
A liar? Yes!
Inconciderate? Yes!
Low? Yes!
Shall I go on?
2006-09-02 16:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not lead anyone on. More importantly you should tell him that you are not gay and that since he is romantically interested in you that you cannot see him anymore.
2006-09-02 16:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Russ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's kind of bad to be using him like that.........You should apologize to him and stop doing it NOW, before you REALLY cause yourself a whole lot of grief.......Take care, and treat this as a lesson learned.........
2006-09-02 16:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! you are sick and a freako, and a user...AND YOU HAVE A SUGAR DADDY!!!!! lol thats funny, dude i know girls who do that but i did not kno guys did that too. are you sure you are not gay? hhehehehehehehee LMAO
2006-09-02 16:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and you may be gay and not ready to admit it.
2006-09-02 16:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a gold digger. you sure you aren't in the closet? i mean, with a name like pretty boy.....
2006-09-02 16:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋