me and my boyfriend after almost a year of dating broke up.i still love him but he says that he dosent feel the same way but in the hall he will flirt with me and that just makes it hader for me to let go...should i tell him how i still feel about him.....i need help...
2006-09-02 16:11:19 · 14 answers · asked by this is bull shit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can try, but I think that he wants to have his cake and eat it too
2006-09-02 16:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Manera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let it go and if he loves you he will come back if not then you learn and grow from this. Dont belittle yourself because you are beautiful and you deserves to be loved and cared for. He isnt ready for committment and he probably feels guilty of cheating thats why he broke it off with you before you fond out. And that little flirting he does in the hall dont pay that any attention he wants to see if he still has you wrapped around his finger. Be smart it will hurt but you can get over him sooner than you think find a friend or two and talk on the phone. email me and tell me what happens or just to talk about the problem.
2006-09-02 23:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I've been through the same thing. Dont just go running back to some fool who broke your heart! Let him be, put some space between you too. Go and remeber who your real friends are and dont waste another tear on this guy. Give it some time, give it some space. It takes time to heal a broken heart. No one can tell you how much. Maybe one day you'll see him again, and old feelings spark back up, then you'll know it was ment to be. Or maybe your relaize its impossible to not love this guy, then maybe it was ment to be.
But give it time, dont give it any more mind or tears. Take a break, enjoy being single...and good luck
worst that can happen? You find your real mr. right...
2006-09-02 23:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already told you that he doesn't feel the same way about your relationship as you do, then he is just teasing you when he flirts with you in the hall and it will never lead anywhere. If you tell him again what would that accomplish since he already knows - Sounds like he doesn't hate you but the relationship will never go anywhere. Move on to someone who will appreciate you for what you have to offer. He is just a tease.
2006-09-02 23:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by swim32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you broke up should be enough to answer this ? 4 u. Going back may seem like the right thing but you need to stick 2 ur guns.
2006-09-02 23:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in that kind of predicament i'd stay as far away from the guy as possible... or go out there and date another guy yea its hard at first but if anythin git would give the dude a taste of his own medicine.
2006-09-02 23:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by thousandsoulvictory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, tell him how you feel. If he still tells you that he doesnt love you. Then, tell him to quit flirting with you and talking to you so you can move on.
2006-09-02 23:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let this jerk know that he has any power over you..... it is an ego trip for him. Smile back if you feel you have to, but don't flirt with him.
2006-09-02 23:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me he has already forgotten about u he know found some otha broad life to screw up! :)
2006-09-02 23:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by meangurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes explain him.
2006-09-02 23:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by sexxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋