I want to be Bi, because god gave us love to use on everyone. how can I?
2006-09-02 16:03:59 · 21 answers · asked by Britnee Bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know if you can MAKE yourself BI, but I guess if you try it and like it...I guess it doesent hurt to try something new. I'm not sure if the love god gave us is for, "sexual" purposes, You can love somebody and not sleep with them
2006-09-02 16:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, but you are born with your sexual orientation, you can't make yourself one way or the other. Now, you are right that God gave us love and commands us to love one another. HE did NOT mean for us to engage in sex with everyone. Remember Sodom and Ghomora? Where God blasted these folks out of existance, due to their prolific sexual behaviors? Well, we can love without having sex you know. In fact, sex has nothing to do with love if it is just the act by itself. Nobody is able to have a romantically charged relationship with every individual in the world. It just is not the way God intended us to love each other. This is a very misguided view on what God wants of us. It is simply not healthy either. Why do you think God allowed so many diseases to be connected to the sex act if he wanted us to engage in sex with everybody we come across? No sex is suppose to be an act between two committed individuals in a romantic relationship. You are free to love as many as you like, but please refrain from having sex with everbody would you? It really is not healthy, safe, or appropriate.
Now, I responded as if this were a serious and honest question. If it was a joke that is ok, I still answered as though you really wanted an answer. I wish you well in life, much happiness your way always.
2006-09-02 23:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are. You need to figure out who you are before you try to understand god. Acts of sexual diversion do not constitute love. If you want to be bi, then you might not want to choose god as your savior.
2006-09-02 23:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Joy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To use ON everyone?
All sex isn't about love.
It's written that God detest= hates the bi/gayness.
2006-09-02 23:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u just cant force urself to be bi..... u have to meet the person first and then see if u like them and u can go from there
2006-09-02 23:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Alex . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it if you like it, pursue it. I think though that most people don't become bi... they just are. I hope you find what you're looking for.
2006-09-02 23:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Its Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE yourself BI. Its a personal choice.
2006-09-02 23:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by VonDutchPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can be with a female sexually, then be with a guy. Enjoy them both, and then you're Bi.
2006-09-02 23:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your attracted to the same sex and opposite sex, then your bi, it does not matter if you have had sex with them. Its whats in your heart.
2006-09-02 23:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can MAKE yourself bi. Either you are, or you arent.
2006-09-02 23:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋