I met this guy on an online dating website. We hit off instantly, & have been seeing each other 3-4 times a week for a month. We text message throughout the day, & talk at night if we aren't getting 2gether. Here is where I am confused. Last week I invited him out with me on a Sat nite, & he said he would call after dinner and never did. The next day we only texted, then things picked up again this week. We saw each other a few times & were doing great. But then today, it was my birthday, so I went to visit him at his job. We were laughing and joking, everything seemed fine.He was totally oblivious to my subtle hints throughout the week that today was my bday seemed a little upset when I mentioned today was my bday.At the end of his shift, he was wrapping things up. I decided to get going to let him finish up. I figured he would call me later or that we could get together & so I waited to hear from him. A few hours later I left him a vmail around 8 & havent heard back. what's his deal?
2006-09-02 15:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by she~dreams~but~cant~sleep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Express to him the same doubt that you presented here. It's as simple as that, so don't complicate it. Tell him you're confused and that you don't know what his intentions are and that you'd like to know what's up, if he likes you in a romantic way or just in a friendly way. Try not to scare him away though, especially if you like him. Good luck.
2006-09-02 16:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy. This guy is seeing other people and he didn't call because he was most likely out with one of his other conquests. This is typical of men who meet women on the internet. That's why he texts you when he can't talk. He can tell his other chic that you're someone from work his boy or some other excuse. I bet you would be surprised if you followed him one day. Don't do this though, just take it as a learning lesson and move on.
2006-09-02 22:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever those other girls say, DON'T BLOW HIM OFF AND WAIT FOR HIM TO CALL! I did that to my ex. and it was two weeks until he called me wondering where I'd gone. In the duration of the two week time period, I'd met someone else and am currently with him and my ex. is bitter because he lost me to someone ten times better than him, so unless you're willing to start up a new relationship with someone else and let the current one fall apart, don't blow him off!
2006-09-02 23:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow Love at Midnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time, and be straight forward with the guy when theres somthing important going on with your life like a birthday.Besides that let life takes its course if you were meant to be then this means nothing.
2006-09-02 22:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by thousandsoulvictory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably planning a surprise 4 u just think positive
2006-09-02 22:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by MADELYNN TAYLOR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be wasting anymore time on this guy. Why should you be always going to see him??? If he really wanted to see you badly, he would be there!!! And he is not!!! Time to move on!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-09-02 22:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off for a while if he really wants you he will be the one that starts wondering why you have blown him off.
2006-09-02 22:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should be asking him that, it seems he playing u when he feels like too, it knid of like if he says jump u would asked him how high.
2006-09-02 22:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just not talk to him again until he calls you.
2006-09-02 22:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by sunnydays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋