hi i am a 14 year old freshman i have this friend that i like a lot and a while ago all her friends said she liked me so i asked her out and she said not now well later her friend told me it was because her parents would not let her until she was 16 wel now we are still 14 and r good friends but i still rly like her i thought i was over her but i am not and she now has has told me she likes me and we talk on aim A LOT but when its in person every thing is so awkward anyways i just want to know ur advise anything will help conversation starters anything thx alot. o and also we dont go to the same high school but we see each other at church
2006-09-02 15:49:28 · 19 answers · asked by help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get all worked up. If you have to wait 2 years she will be on to someone else by then.
2006-09-02 15:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a 14 year old girl, and i think that she should respect her parents. if u like her enough, u will wait 2 years or her. stay friends with her, make sure things don't get awkward. if u think things r awkward, just say "this is awkward" because saying that u arent comfortable will (in some strange way) make u both more comfortable. just do things for her all the time, treat her like u like her. that is all i can tell u. but make sure she knows that u like her all the time...with out being creepy about it.
good luck.
2006-09-02 22:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out what her interests are and talk about that. You should also try to ask her out to the movies ( as friends) and then talk about the movie. Girls really like it when she and the guy have a lot in common because then there aren't as much fights and arguments in the relationship. So try to find more similarities and good stuff about each other rather then flaws and everything should go good. Good Luck !!
2006-09-02 22:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by VonDutchPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't date until she's sixteen, then you guys should just wait. Being good friends is good, too, you know, and you guys will probably be in a better relationship when you're older by getting to know each other more now. And it can get awkward in person, but getting to know each other more will break the ice.
2006-09-02 22:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by *~*Carnival*~*Ride*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats not bad! Just go with the flow you know and wait! well you could talk about church service and since you guys don't go to the same school you could bring up things that happens in your school. There is alot of things to talk about! You could be really deep! you can talk about nature itself!
2006-09-02 22:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by antonette_lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents have made a wise decision not to allow her date until she is 16. Respect their wishes. You can continue to enjoy her company at church, youth group, etc. Don't be to concerned with seeing her alone. Try to enjoy being a kid for a while longer.
2006-09-02 22:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let her know that u like her still and that u know her parents wont let her date but that dont mean that u cant ...that her parents dont have to know that ur together if she wants to be with u then u will find a way for u 2 see each otha so they dont know...
2006-09-02 22:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this strongly about her then give it till you're both 16..in the meantime work on the friendship build it stronger..the best relationships begin with friendship
2006-09-02 22:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for giudence if its the right thing some thing will present its self to you, and Hi how are you useally works good.
2006-09-02 22:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by brown 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so normal.
You could talk about school.. differences in your schools etc. Plans for the future, latest movies, music, pets, etc. You could talk about your brother and sisters if you have any, etc.
2006-09-02 22:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by vodkastars♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋