I know this woman at work(around mid 20's). Anyhow, she's had my eye for the longest time now. We say hi and bye whenever we get the chance but when i see her from a distance, she looks away from me. I've even gotten the courage to make conversation but that doesn't last long because i run out of things to say, and she does too. but when i see her talking to other guys, it seems like she has plenty to say. it seems as if she doesn't want me around her so as of late, i've just stayed away. I never intended to make her feel uncomfortable if she does feel that way. Should i just go ahead and tell her what i think about her....i don't want to ruin the relationship we have now(if you could call it that anyway)
2006-09-02 15:48:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will be honest with you, I think she might go out on a date with you depending on your age but if you can't come up with anything to say, then you might as well kiss your *** goodbye. Im 25 horriable with women but i'm figuring out the best way to meet them is with a group of friends surrounding you. You would have to be in a good set up for that. School, church, and maybe work would be good to meet people. My advise to you is to ask her out cause you have nothing to lose. So what if she doesn't say hi to you.
2006-09-02 16:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by james w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if she doesn't talk a lot aroud you she's shy. If you really like her than you'll tell her you do. Ask her out. Take her on a romantic evening. That's sorta stuff. lol. But don't plan everything. Like let her be in control. If you want to take her out to the movies, let her pick the movie. The movie I would go take her to see is Step Up. Just encase she doesn't know what to go see. And like tell her how good she looks if you run out of things to say. And don't try to impress her. It just makes you look stupid. I hope this helps. lol. Well good luck. Have a nice life. No really. lol. Bye!
2006-09-02 22:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kirsti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey guy,, I just have the almost same story no b.s. really i work at a departmant store and there is this chick we are both in our 20's she's early 20's i'm 27, I had (or still do have this crush on her), however we went out to lunch once and i told her that i liked her and i thought it would be cool if we hung out she said the same back to me, I asked her for her # two days later and she gave it without hesiations, I start asking her to do stuff and she said she was always busy, so I always actaed cool about it, then she would ask me what i was doing for break and all that and I would do whatever she wanted to do, by the way i called her a lot of times but she never returned my calls,
i truly thought i had her until one day she says that she met this cute guy in her neighboorhood and he asked her for her # and she gave it too him but was pissed that he hadn't called, she asks me what does this mean, At this time i am like drop dead shocked, I'm like i don't know, She says well why's that your a guy, i said i don't know,
She asks me later what's wrong and i say nothing, I later tell her that was bothering me and she tells me she doesn't want to talk about it.
To be honest with ya dude if you think she's not interested in ya your probably right, maybe ask her for her # or ask her what she's doing after work and see if she wants to have like coffee or something, if she gives you some retarded answer then probably i"d chase after another girl, the fact that she talks to other guys' i wouldn't be too worried about, most chicks in their 20's like to talk anywase, okay try this if you just ignore her and she makes no attempt to talk to you then she probably isn't interested, good luck
2006-09-02 23:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by the d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! What's the worst that could happen. If you don't end up going out and can still be friends then you'll know she's was a true friend from the start.
2006-09-02 22:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by jackie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus muster the courage and attack her with the question and atleast after that u will know where u stand.....
2006-09-02 22:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by tutsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, my old son, that you are being given the old heave ho!
Get over it - you'll find another one to drool over - us guys always do, you know.
2006-09-02 22:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out...women find it easier to hold conversations with men they don't like. Sounds like she's into you.
2006-09-02 22:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell how you feel. Ask her out to lunch or coffe
2006-09-02 22:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by slikwill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if she laughs at your jokes if she does then normaly she likes you(this only works if you know they are not funny)
2006-09-02 22:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tori_Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asked her!
2006-09-02 22:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋