what is the point of having relationships if all i do is get hurt?like y should i continue to be in one?
2006-09-02 15:43:25 · 21 answers · asked by ningamunkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because eventually, you will learn from all the pain, how to find the one who wont cause the pain.. and find true happiness. Good luck :)
2006-09-02 15:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The point of having a relationship is to find a partner who you will want to be with and be happy with. You have to take the risk of getting hurt in a relationship. You should continue in one because it makes you happy and you care about the person romantically. If you're unhappy, try to work it out if the relationship is worth it to you or if you're being abused in any way (Verbal, emotional and/or physical) you should get out right away.
2006-09-02 22:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point is to learn from your mistakes and not keep choosing the same kind of man over and over again. What does not kill us should make us stronger. Learn and become strong. Look for a man who is willing to give not only 50% but 100% to the relationship.
2006-09-02 22:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point is to find one where neither you or the person you're in the relationship with end up hurt.
2006-09-02 22:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it kinda depends on if the relationship is dating or marriage..in your vows you said for better or worse, in a marriage sometimes there's a lot of bad but you have to be strong for yourself and your partner..if this is dating you need to reevaluate what's happening and why you seen to be getting hurt, I'm gonna assume you mean emotionally...and what does not kill us makes us stronger, maybe you are going through stuff to be able to help someone else one day.
2006-09-02 22:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not just the other person, could there be things you are doing to help cause the hurt? it takes 2 to tango. Maybe you need to raise the bar on what your expectations are and make it very clear about what your looking for before you engage in another relationship
2006-09-02 22:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time before getting into a relationship. Too many rush into something. Wait at least two years before you make an emotional commitment. Within that time period you will be able to decide whether or not the person is "right" for you, or, if it is time to move on.
2006-09-02 22:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok love doesn't come with perfection but with ups and downs that you will face. If you are getting hurt (it depends on the situation) you will either work with it or move on. If you don't take care of you who else will protect you? But when you find the right one then everything will pay off at the end.
2006-09-02 22:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you wanna find that specially someone you have to try! When you try you are often gonna get hurt because you have to go through a couple of losers first then you'll find Your prince charming. Plus if you was hurt by someone you shouldn't feel bad about it forever because you wouldn't want someone thats gonna be with you and hurt you! I hope this helps!
2006-09-02 22:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by antonette_lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point of relationships is to try and find that one that you want to be with forever.
2006-09-02 22:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be in a relationship right now. You need to be happy with yourself and heal from the broken relationships that you have had. Then, try to find a suitable person to date.... be picky!!! Good luck
2006-09-02 22:47:02 · answer #11 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋