I am a 19 year old guy who is in college. I have never been good at talking to people, especially females. Everytime I want to talk to a girl, I wuss out. Most recently, a girl in one of my classes came in wearing these boots that made her look GOOD. I wanted to give her a complement, but like always I froze up. What's wrong with me? What should I do?
2006-09-02 15:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to a place that puts you in a situation where you have no choice but to talk to chicks(Victoria Secrets, a bath and body,ect.) pretend you are buying something for a friend ,sister,whatever as a female is helping you ask question that could lead to small talk. Do something like this a few times and you can then try to approach a girl and give her a nice compliment or whatever.
2006-09-02 15:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*chuckles, with the wisdom of old age*
C'mon here, Son, we need to talk.
First off, women don't like as.sholes ok?
Second off, women don't like easy pushover guys- they'll drain your wallet then blame YOU for being weak!
Women for some strange reason, like to date "bad guys"- just enough of a jerk to make it worthwhile, but not enough to turn them off.
Ever notice how a woman will date a jock, get pregnant then end up marrying the nerd? Cause she's figured out the Jock is a jerk, but the nerd will be good to her BABYS
Remember its always "Mommys baby, Daddys Maybe"
So, you need more training- go listen and look up on the web to a guy named Tom Leykis, and specifically get a crash course in Leykis 101 on how to get laid, and not spend money
Good Luck
2006-09-02 22:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've heard the saying: "Nothing ventured nothing gained?" What have you got to lose by putting yourself out there a bit...asserting yourself? Just DO IT. It will boost your confidence more than you might think.And don't think of yourself as a "wuss" because your shy.
2006-09-02 22:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open with yourself. Girls always love complements. That's a great way to start a convo. Girls love guys with confidence also. Good luck.
2006-09-02 22:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Aaralyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you should do...you should try talking to girls online..ok no this works.....when i first moved to Florida and did not know any one i used to be like this..i never talked to anyone especially guys...even if a guy asked said as little a thing as i like your hair i would like totally freak out. i think its because i am from pakistan and i went to a all girls school there and when i moved to usa it was like different..i kno it does not relate to your thing directely but if you talk to girls online you'll be more use to talk to girls...i mean wat you got to lose anyway...just try it
2006-09-02 22:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything hun,..everything..
jk..maby u should just straight up talk to her..
think like this..-treat everyday like its ur last day..-
maby that'll help??
2006-09-02 22:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by applebottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋