what advice can i give a friend that finds security in sleeping around...and she hasn't been using protection ...i don't know what to tell her because she won't listen to me.....HELP!!!
2006-09-02 15:32:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing will help... Just try not to end up in bed with her.
2006-09-02 15:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Uros I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this: "do you know what you look like acting like that?" or "will you be proud of yourself in 10 years knowing how promiscuous you are?"; how about one day when you are a mama,will you tell your kids how many partners you've had.....i know it may be hard to help your friend get her head on straight, but if you hurt her feelings and make her wake-up, is it really so bad to lose a friend but try to stop yet another female from hoeing it? you could also show her this question and the answers you've recieved..
2006-09-02 15:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has probably been molested, and thinks sleeping around will get her love. the no protection is because she does not think she's worth it. She needs a counselor real bad. Just keep trying to get her to get help-you're a good friend keep trying
2006-09-02 15:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she has a self esteem problem. Try to convince her that she is a worthwhile person and deserves a real relationship. Tell her about the risk she is putting on herself, std's and pregnancy. Get a group of friends together and do an intervention.
2006-09-02 15:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she doesn't want to listen. It may sound sad but she'll have to learn the hard way if she truly won't listen to your advice. Does your advice put her on the defensive? If it does then there really isn't anything you can do except to get someone else that she is close to to talk to her.
2006-09-02 15:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u know what the say about ppl who don't listen they have to feel to learn. then to realise their mistake....
Show her some documentary on those HIV and other STD disease and see if that can help to bring her around to take sleeping around without using protection more seriously.
2006-09-02 15:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've told her about how she's get pregnant by sleeping with different partners without protection and not knowing that who's the father if she's pregnant. and also having different partners when she doesn't even know them at all, and don't use protection she can get diseases.
2006-09-02 15:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out let me know because I have a friend just like that, and her biggest concern is not getting pregnant. I'm like what about all the other things you can get beside that, but she pays me no attention, and actually tease me about not getting play the way she does. So again when you find out let me know.
2006-09-02 15:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to an aids hospice and tell her to take a good long look at what could happen to her if she keeps sleeping around. A little shock treatment goes a long way.
2006-09-02 15:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother having her as a friend,cut yourself off from the tramp,that is what i would do,she is not the kind of friend i would like.She has obviously got issues,she should seek help instead of sex,it wont help her-she has to deal with her problems,YOU DONT.
2006-09-02 15:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sit her down and tell her that she needs to protect herself because their are consequences when someone has sexual intercourse. Talk to her about using condoms, birth control pills, the shot, or the patch..Tell her about transmitted diseases that can harm her.
2006-09-02 15:38:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋