My best friend and i have been friends since 1st grade and best friends since 4th. Were both in 10th grade right now. I never pictured this happening ya know? i mean this kid knows everything about me...EVERYTHING!!! and ive never ever felt nething for him b4..at least not that i ever admitted to myself...but it seems like lately the more we hang out and the closer we get the more feelings im starting to feel. I swear its like wierd ive never felt this way about anyone. He has a girlfriend right now who also happens to be one of my close friends....its so hard to be around them because i wood never wanna do anything to hurt either one...but i just feel like i need to tell someone and hes the person i usually tell everything to but i cant tell him this...i mean what if i tell him and things are never the same between us again?? i coodnt live like that... I GUESS I JUST NEED YOUR HELP SOO PLEAZ TELL ME WAT TO DO.....PLEASE
2006-09-02 15:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by iplaywithriflesandsabres 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing you can do is tell him because let me tell you if you never tell him you will always wonder what "would" have happened. Hes your best friend, he wont break your friendship merely because you tell him the truth. if anything he will feel closer to you because you felt safe enough to tell him. Things will only never be the same if you let this eat away at you. tell him and I promise you will never regret it,
2006-09-02 15:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Richard and Kristi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to this whole situation is that he already has a girlfriend. Unless they break up, you have no chance with him and anything you say to him about the issue will almost certainly have a negative effect on your friendship. Now, *if* they separate... he's fair game at that point!
2006-09-02 22:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be brave and tell him you like hoim alot and as more then a friend maybe he will take it easy or maybe he will walk away in fear or being scared. take a chance or you will never know the outcome unless you try. tell him your feeling sare stronger each time you two hang out and that you want to give eachother a try in a relationship a dating one
2006-09-02 22:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. So you can see how that goes
and maybe pick up the pieces if they break up.
2006-09-02 22:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me more write back 2 me k i think i can help u I've been through this before trust me and it worked out just fine
2006-09-02 22:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.. thats the easiest option........anyway hes your bestfreind he will accept you......though things would not be the same.....
2006-09-02 22:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by yanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool
2006-09-02 22:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋