Would u date me?

Question

I have never had a boyfriend out of choice. I have made up my mind not to start dating until I start my career and become something better than what I already am. Not until recently, I have been feeling like I want someone to be with and to go out on dates and just have some good times together. My friends have boyfriends/ fiance's and I get lonely and jealous when I hang out with them. They are always calling their guys when they come over and it bothers me that I don't have anyone right now. I have never been asked out by a guy either. Please help me with some advise on how to get a boyfriend. Thanks

I am 5'3, brunette, hazel eyes, funny, love to laugh and have fun. I am a christian and attend services regularly. I enjoy volleyball, frisbee, hanging out with friends and family, movies, listening to music, and others.... I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I don't go to clubs because I am only 18 going on 19 next month. I am not skinny but not fat. I consider myself average. I enjoy cooking and working puzzles for fun. Need any more details, just ask?

I am 5'3, brunette, hazel eyes, funny, love to laugh and have fun. I am a christian and attend services regularly. I enjoy volleyball, frisbee, hanging out with friends and family, movies, listening to music, and others.... I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I don't go to clubs because I am only 18 going on 19 next month. I am not skinny but not fat. I consider myself average. I enjoy cooking and working puzzles for fun. Need any more details, just ask?

Answer 1

If you wanted one, you could get one you know. They probably just feel that you are not that interested if they talk to you - that shows. Don't just get one since your friends have one though. If you want to pursue a career first before anything serious, you could just date people without necessarily getting a boyfriend - that is an option. Or - you could find someone who is like you - who wants to focus on their career or school right now but who wants someone for when they are free - to have good times with, etc. These are things that you would find out about them on a first day perhaps though - ask questions about their goals and if they want relationships - don't force that issue but if it comes up it comes up ; it usually will at some point. Perhaps you can find someone who is also looking for a companion but not a serious serious relationship yet.

That way you could go out with someone and have a companion from time to time if you wanted one but you wouldn't feel like you had to spend every second of the day with them or that you have to call them to check in - if that is what worries you about a relationship. And if you date people from time to time, you will start to get a better idea of what you want in someone when you do want a boyfriend and long term relationship so this is something that you may want to consider instead. Just be clear with them - let them all know that you are seeing other people without commitments.

So - if you do know that you want a bf or even if you just want to start meeting guys to date- go places that you like to go or do things that you like to do. If you workout at the gym , you could talk to someone there and ask them if maybe they would like to do something sometime or if they would like to get some coffee after the gym. It is ok to approach them too - you don't need to wait for them to approach you. Sometimes certain kinds of women - good looking, career minded, etc will intimidate men and they will be afraid to ask cause they don't want to get turned down. Just be outgoing and friendly. Maybe your friends bfs know someone who you would be compatible with - that is an option. Or - if you are still in college or school, maybe someone there. Good luck! :o)

Answer 2

Dress sexy, put on makeup, dye your hair, lose some weight, start swearing, talk dirty, drink beer and do anything a guy asks you for -as long as he pays you more than 50 bucks.
Or stay like you are, be happy that you dont have to worry about guys cheating or breaking up with you, enjoy life and do the things you love to be doing...
I would date you if its the same things I like to be doing, its more fun to be doing them with a girl because girls are more fun to be hanging with...so there! Just be yourself :)

Answer 3

Honey, you've got to get out there and test the waters. Find out what you like and don't like about guys. It's great that you want to focus on your career before settling in, but you need to know what you want when that time comes. I'm not saying go out and test drive a new guy every weekend, but go out and have some fun with some of them. Most guys, like girls, want someone with some experience with the opposite sex. I'm not necessarily talking about bedroom antics, but you should know about some of their habits and why they behave in certain ways. It's kind of like Jane Goodall and her chimps. You gotta observe them to learn their behaviors.

Answer 4

why haven't u been asked out? how do u look? just curios. name a movie/TV star u slightly resemble.
r u cross eyed? do u shower frequently? do u have a handicap? disfigured? anything odd going on?
not being rude, just really curios whats up with the no guy asking u out.
my bet is you might be attractively challenged...eh, I'm right ain't I?
S'ok. nobodys perfect. work on your strengths.

Answer 5

Just go out and have fun. Guys will love you if you work the HAIR and can actually talk to them.

Answer 6

Go out and have fun. Socialize. But dont be loose. Guys wont love you if you do the spread eagle.

Answer 7

Yes, I would date you.

Don't search too hard for a boyfriend....as you will find a boyfriend and not someone to actually spend the rest of your life with happily. It's easy to find dates.....it's harder to find quality dates.

Answer 8

easy go to a bar and pick some one up.. i am not suggesting sleepin with him or anything like that just to satisfy your self that guys find you attractive

Answer 9

Yes ,

I am from bombay / India my email Id

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Answer 10

Yes, if you lived near me and close to my age.