I've been in love before and after four years of pain I just want to know is it really worht it? and also how can I trust anyone ever again? I really don't want to get hurt.
2006-09-02 15:11:16 · 10 answers · asked by Vernice R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow after all the progress, that mind set won't go away.
No. Love is not supposed to hurt. If you accept pain, it will happen. Again & Again.
Personally I've had my share of issues but got proper advice and that made all the difference in my point of reference.
Don't accept less than you deserve. When you make that clear, someone wonderful will respect you for that and care for you.
Best Regards
2006-09-02 15:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by ena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is worth the pain tenfold....and I say this because I know what you are going through. After years of being hurt I finally found the one for me. Don't give up--he's out there. And think of the things you have gained from your severed relationships. I'm sure they have made you a much stronger person even if sometimes it doesn't seem that way
2006-09-02 15:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi; i did no longer study all the solutions, so that's obtainable that some one else has made those factors. Love should not be that painful! you will possibly desire to by no ability enable yet somebody else be to blame to your happiness. Your happiness is your element ... in case you will possibly properly be happy with out yet somebody else then you definitely are happy adequate to enjoy a loving relationship. of course it sounds basic -- yet portion of being in love is getting to know to place with "stupid little issues". From what you're saying she is hurting you; with out understanding it. I even have ask your self approximately that -- won't be able to you tell her some thing alongside the lines of " ... that truly bothers me -- won't be able to you be a sprint extra tender to that kind of stuff?". i assume i'm asking "Are you specific you're in love?". ultimate of luck. bill
2016-11-06 07:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is like all good things in life worth your effort, pain is sometimes part of the equation but if it is true love it will be a great reward and it will make all the pain you went trough seem like nothing.
2006-09-02 15:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every minute's worth. Look at life as a learning not as suffering, life is teaching you a lot through your suffering, the most important lesson being not to make the same mistakes again.
2006-09-02 15:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not......love is supposed to feel good i was in the same situation with the four years thing and it wasn't worth holding on....it tough to go through new relationships but if u can handle four years with someone then u can handle any relationship that your strong enough to handle
2006-09-02 16:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts and suck it has beaten me down to a humbling mush but i keep getting up for more my mind and my heart and my body are always talking separate languages i hope one day the pain stops but i dont think its going to happen while on earth maybe in another planet or heaven
2006-09-02 15:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
until dildos can mow the lawn...yes love is worth the pain
2006-09-02 15:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by gcollins711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'T is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..
I go by that!
2006-09-02 15:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...it is worth every splinter of pain!!!
2006-09-02 15:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by luvgal792003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋