Well.. I do masturbate, but I always feel so lame afterwards cuz I mean.. some ppl say that ppl masturbate just cuz they can't get any... is that true? And am I lame? I'm a virgin.. but I'm saving myself for my husband. This isn't meant to be sick, I just want to know if other people think its lame to masturbate.
2006-09-02 14:53:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
No, you are fine...keep saving yourself!
Don't listen to General X, I think he is lame! LOL
2006-09-02 14:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not lame. It's safer doing that than meeting some random guy and doing it with him. All those people that say that other people masturbate because they can't get any are also masturbating themselves (hope I didn't confuse you). Now let me ask you this: Do you think that it's fair for you to "save" yourself for your husband? Do you wonder if your future husband will be a virgin too? I don't think he will be, no way in hell. I believe you should re-think your "saving" yourself idea, because 99% of all men are not virgins when they marry. Just a thought, but in the meantime, go on with yourself and don't worry about what other people think when it comes to masturbation. Enjoy.
2006-09-02 14:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by morningstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is nothing to feel lame about. No, its not true that people masturbate because they can't get laid, well in some cases I suppose it is true.
I masturbate daily, sometimes multiple times and yes I have a fiance that I have sex with daily as well. Masturbation to me is a way to get in touch with my body, relieve stress. My day is so full of stuff, from taking care of family, the home, going to college, and everything I find masturbation as time that I have to myself for myself. I use it as a benefit! Masturbation allows a women especially, to get in touch with their body and allow them to tell their partners what they like and what spots feel the best. Once you are married you have the knowledge of your own body so that sex with your husband will be pleasing to you. I commend you for being a virgin and wanting to save yourself for your husband. Not a lot of young females are virgins and sex to the young generation I think is blown out of proportion. You have class regardless what other people say. This isn't anything to feel bad or lame about. Its human nature.
2006-09-02 15:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Lips of Morphine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not lame. Thats cool that youre a virgin and youre saving yourself for your husband. Thats a very special thing and its good to know that there are still some girls out there that have those kind of morals. Good for you! and keep masturbating...its a healthy thing.
2006-09-08 09:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
General X's response was funny. Okay, here goes, I will answer your questions in order.
1. Is this lame? Yes, the question is lame.
2. No.
3. Yes, for asking the question to begin with.
4. No.
2006-09-02 15:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lulabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel... I felt the same, and I still do.
However, if there is one thing you should be proud of, it's wanting to preserve your virginity. That shows you have dignity and honor, and I commend that.
No, you are not lame. You are, in fact, far better than most.
2006-09-02 15:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by Link 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masteurbating is normal. Saving yourself for you husband is very wise. It keeps you from getting any STDs and pregnant. You're a smart girl and one day you'll raise a nice family. But for now masturbating is fine. Everyone does it. Everyone!
2006-09-02 15:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Aaralyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not lame everyone does it. Even people who have some one do it some times
2006-09-02 14:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dear masturbating is not lame its pretty darn smart you cant get pregnant or catch an STD - so get rid of the guilty lame feeling and enjoy
2006-09-02 14:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think its lame... you do what you gotta do and that's saving yourself. Good for you! I masturbate, I'm married and he watches. So no i don't think your lame nore do i think your lame. And to those who say its lame are $#@%^& up anyway.
2006-09-02 15:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Majestic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋