ok, there's this kid at my school that i really like. i think he likes me too but i just can't tell because i dont no if hes being nice to me(i just moved there), or if he actually genuinley likes me. he says hi everytime he sees me and he always asks how im doing and such and i reply. ppl at my school were telling me that he is a big flirter, but is this real, or is he just flirting and just playing around? should i ask for his #? should i tell him i like him?(i met him like, 3 weeks ago, so is it too early?) im really confused about this and im not sure what to do. i flirt back, but sometimes i just tense up, and im not sure what to do. as you can tell, im really inexperienced(ive only had one boyfriend and he didn't even like me). i really appreciate u answering this question but please, dont make fun of my ignorance, i only want answers, not mean jokes.
I REALLY APPRECIATE IT!!!
THX SO MUCH!!!
2006-09-02 14:47:51 · 7 answers · asked by ghettofabulous :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should tell him you like him, or ask for his number. He might like you, but it's quite possible that he's just being friendly.
If it turns out that he's not into you (in a romantic way), don't worry, just try to be cool as a single person. Get involved in some activities at your new school. Meet as many people as you can. If you're confident, people will naturally be drawn to you, just as you are drawn to him.
2006-09-02 15:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably does LIKE you. But liking someone and wanting a relationship with them are two different things. There is nothing wrong with flirting, it's a part of being friendly. He's a friendly guy. You seem to be looking for something that just doesn't seem to be there. You are trying to make far more out of a guy who is being friendly than what is actually there. You have alot to learn about relationships so I suggest you just keep things friendly with any guy for now.
2006-09-02 14:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl alot of guys when they see a new girl at school some of them have a crush on the new girl. And some don't trust me u can tell if he likes u.If he blushes when u talk to him, if u are friends and u hug him and he is hugging u for a longtime, and if he stares deep into your eyes when u look at him.
2006-09-02 14:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are paying attention to what the majority says, and it may be true that he is a big flirt, but exchange #s and give him a try. Just don't give yourself up completely to him, let him do the talking, you know, peep him out and make up your own mind about this guy. Chao!
2006-09-02 14:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey !! i dont think u should tell him that u like him because i think is to early just wait time will tell u the answer if he like u he would do someting later or soon he may ask u for u # or to go out but dont tell him nothing because u dont want 2 look like u are desperate 4 him!!
2006-09-02 15:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by venezolanita4ever212 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um...
Everybody is ignorant at a relationship,,, look at the divorce rate.
So now doesn't that make me the expert.????
Why don't you:
slow down,
you are new here - wait and see what this person is like...
yeah get his #.
no don't tell him yet,,(see above)
If he just likes the new people then what is it about those that have known him a long time....?
If I like someone then i attempt to remove confusion not add to it...
what about you...????
Positive signals are best
mixed signal - well I believe they're confused.
negative signals - they don't like me...
Positive is the only ones I respond to
but I'm divorced and no gf yet.....
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2006-09-02 14:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r confused have u read ur question!!! ok anyway just ask him out ittl get u a straight forward answer. if u cant take pain and he says no then just do wut u r doin and wait 4 him 2 ask u out after all it is the 21st century
2006-09-02 14:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by speedy727 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋