Nothing makes him want to do it. I have a subscription to Cosmo and i've tried everything! Help! By the way... we're both in our early 20s.
2006-09-02 14:39:28 · 17 answers · asked by Aaralyn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK so you have a few things you can do, first off your going to have to initiate the sex, there are many ways to go after a guy but first have to find out what he likes. Is he an boob, *** man, legs......what ???
then go from there , talk to him, tease him, let him know what you want, and make it obvious because guys can not take a hint. if you need help try this site http://www.sexinfo101.com/
And the last thing to remember is he may not feel that way about you, he may be having problem's down there that he doesn't want to talk about, or a bad experience, or at the worst he may be gay.
2006-09-05 15:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ivy Leaf 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some guys just have a lower sex drive. Start investing in sex toys to take care of things yourself. This might also spark interested in your bf as well.
2006-09-02 21:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low sex drive means low interest - the sex he is having with you isn't that great or he's banging someone else - believe me, I know first hand - I've had a girl I had sex with once a week for 1 year and I've had a girl I had sex with twice a day for a year - I'm still me, my partner dictated my drive
2006-09-02 22:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about this problem. Maybe he needs viagra?
Some people have low sex drive due to medical problems. Does he have diabetes.
2006-09-02 21:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't given us much information.
But it may be the theory of diminishing returns.
Or it could be as simple as the two of you need to get more in-sync with each other. Do you not spend much time together? Or do you live together, and perhaps spend too much time together?
2006-09-02 21:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just not into you. Im sorry to say but unless he's gay he would of responed if he was sexually attracted to you. In your 20's your at your peak with ur sex drive.
2006-09-02 21:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by P3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him clear and directly.Ask what happen to him. 2 things happen:he has a problem, and need professional help;or he has somebody else.If nothing change,Lady you will need to find another man.Good luck.
2006-09-02 21:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine has the same problem, he says the only thing that turns him on is when i just do it , and start stripping him and stuff. after a minute or two he gits into it and takes the lead
2006-09-02 21:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by ks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him his walking papers unless you want more of the same when you marry him. I had that crap in the 1st marriage and it sucked. This one is better
2006-09-02 21:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss his neck, lightly rub your fingers down his back or stomach, kiss his ears. Tell him you want him. Wear some sexy pajamas.
2006-09-02 21:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweetstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋