The family you get is the family you have from God who in the first place gave you to have your WHOLE lifetime until your death. Everyone of us has a soulmate already ordained by God before all of us were born. Hey ALL of our days was ordained before one of them to be { Psalm 139 : 16 }. I know that in my heart that my husband was the man I was SUPPOSE to love & marry. Like they said God gives the best to those who leaves the choice to him. It is so sad that my husband { Paul Heinz }made a decision to not want the lifetime wife God already picked out for him anymore so 5 years ago he jump over the fence with my x best friend.Well one day he will see truly what he throw away.It is in God's hands so I'm going on forward with my children 2 out from 3.Hey that is good because my 2 children & I are very close , thanks to God we are.God brings the good out from any bad situation.The losers here are my husband & my older child but they are blind to the real truth.We are prayering for them.
2006-09-02 14:23:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God did in Genesis,He said"aman is to leave his mother and father and take a wife and the two shall become one"How do they become one? By mixing their genes in childbirth,the two become one.This doesn't mean you can't get divorced but you better watch how you become divorced and remarried.
2006-09-02 14:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by AngelsFan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is something called 'free will'. It is specifically mentioned in Genesis.
If you had a soul mate or a family already laid out for you, I think that would interfere with free will, personally. It means you really never had a choice -- you would have come to God anyway.
So, no, I don't believe in an ordained husband or family.
PS: You sound extremely bitter regarding your divorce/separation. Perhaps talking about it in the Family/Relationships section would help you more than clogging up a philosophically oriented area.
2006-09-02 14:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ya KNOW.................... I understand you completely.....and that really scares me and makes me want 2 wake up from the nightmare and get on with my own life.....god.....i dont want 2 be like u or me... sorry! ya wow....i ...... brokeup with this dame that would not stop her addictions to drugs last november 05/and after 19 years of seeing each other and married life 2 ya know it was just hard so hard 2 take her addictions anymore.I didnt use! I was afraid 4 the kids safety from fires or whatever from this poor sick woman child and i had 2 let her go i had 2 as she tried 2 get her daughter hooked and was doing it in front of them and everything......it was killing me that i could not help her or do anything more for a person i really loved and still do but even that i cannot go back 2, and ya she burned that bridge by going back 2 her X who is a real DOPER......its real bloody sad as there both into it and GOD where are they going 2 fall or what.....thats a really bad scene i know good people who were there and i believe what they said about that plane of existance....so I walked away with 3/4 of the prize i guess as i did not feel that way before.....wow i know what this site is for now and it just takes some a faster route like i just did LOL thanks i feel good! Hear U and dont think im putting u down no way i like what u said, but not at first as UR showing everyone how much ur hurtin and seriously im out of here and if U want mail me ......im getting on with everything and no more anger and sorrow 4 me dudest wow u really put it into perspective and now i can fly hahaha LOL ill keep my stick off the ice LOL eh !
2006-09-02 15:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by yuk fu 2 me 2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes families should stay together. It hard for the person who has been left and given that type of treatment. You've got to wonder what's in their heads or if they were on the same belief system as you were in the first place. I'm sorry for your situation and I hope you'll draw on God's strength and forgive and go forward.
2006-09-02 14:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously feeling a lot of pain. If you truly feel married to your ex-husband with a deep and spiritual connection and cannot go beyond that, maybe you should explore the possibility of a reconciliation in the form of a plural marriage like many of the old testament examples. Don't be afraid to share your love. You and his new (other) wife can share a life with him in harmony what is the problem? But you have to work it out with the two of them.
2006-09-02 23:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sincere Questioner 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
those who are doing it ,believe it
to force man into a singular relationship is a new Christian idea ,and it is not so sucsesfull,judging by the many divorces,and extra-marital relationships that many Christians indulge in.
furthermore if it happens the( first )wife is often discarded ,so that systems sucks as far as reality is concerned,
how ever much Women might want to believe in the romantic love of a life time.
a far better idea is the mariage that can take on new wives ,but does not leave the previous wives in the cold ,and all the resulting trauma involving the children,on the contrary the older wives are respected and remain in the family as important componants of the relationship,often being in charge of the house hold ,or fullfilling business ambitions ,maybe even taking on lovers of their own.
this has worked for thousands of years ,with Indian,Chinese,Arab and African cultures ,as well as with ancient civilisations
what ever the one woman one man fanatics may believe or hopefully wish for ,the proof is in the pudding.
as far as god is concerned,this is yet another fantasy ,that was manufactured to mislead .manipulate and control lost souls who were groping in the darkness for reason
the story of Jesus was based on the story of Horus and Osiris ,and this was a symbolic representation of the life cycle of the Sun .
its purpose was to transform Paganism to the Islamic and Christian religions
the religion was based on the humanized story ,of these cosmic bodies and their events,by the descendants (illuminati)of the Anunnaki ,who was know as the creator but who was not a God ,but no more than a learned refugee from Mars before it was knocked out of Orbit
the Illuminati used this religion to manipulate,the Adams race,which was created by the Anunnaki (through genetic engineering and cloning)to mine gold for them ,and to this day controls this race(most of us)descendants.
over the eons the symbolism was totaly lost .
the myth was strengthened by continues application of false information
(i.e Leonardi da Vinci ,was one of many,and the shroud of Turin is such an example, as was the da Vinci code,humanizing the legend)
so that by now Jesus has become a real person .
however no one ever could agree on what he should look like.
and over the centuries,artists have made up several accepted versions. of the greatest con in all of Human history
Todays allies of the Illuminati are the bilderberg group,the Round table ,U.N,the Club of Rome(Vatican).and these control the world through war and finance.
they always have done so
and their method has been by dividing Humanity in to religious,cultural ,and political oposing groups ,which are then set against one an other
the New World Order (continued from Hitler) is their baby,
Bush and Blair are their present marionettes.
as al USA presidents have been (34 of them are related to Charles the great and Charlemagne,)the leaders of this world have always been, more or less one clan,including the Roman and even Chinese Emperors ,the Pharoes,the Popes,as far back as the kings of Babylonia.
Source(s):
some suporting text can be found in
Anunnaki PDF and
the biggest secret by Icke
pray all you like This anunaki you call God is long gone,it is his conniving and mischieves brood that you are dealing with.
2006-09-02 14:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That does stink, but I can't find any Biblical proof that says that God only ordained us one person, and that's who we need to be with. The Bible is very cloudy on if there is "one person out there for everyone." In fact, Jesus would even say that in the situation listed above, infidelity, you can leave.
2006-09-02 14:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kara 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, God does no longer make blunders- yet human beings can, and that they do. i'm sorry yet I dont believe your ideas right here. i'm able to comprehend them, yet I respectfully disagree. God supplies existence for particular, and he what he creates is outstanding. yet human beings have loose will, and make blunders with their loose will perpetually- every day, all and sundry human beings make blunders and misjudgements, and consistently will. we are no longer appropriate like God. And we can be born into all varieties of situations, with all varieties of distinctive mothers and dads. mothers and dads make blunders, or maybe even with the undeniable fact that we are taught to comprehend them, they are no longer appropriate the two, and its okay to renowned that. additionally, merely because of the fact your mothers and dads chosen to stay mutually and your husband's didnt, doesnt mean your have been greater appropriate or precise and his incorrect. loose will given to us by God dictates wether or no longer a guy or woman will choose for to mimic what they have seen or go their very very own way. My father could have been abusive, alcoholic, etc. yet that doesnt mean i might become that way. With my very very own loose will I chosen to ascertain i does no longer be like him, and that i havent. I chosen freely, merely as your mothers and dads did to stay mutually, merely as your husband's mothers and dads chosen to no longer stay mutually. And contained in the top, purely God can decide the hearts of folk, and what became precise with their decision given all situations seen.
2016-09-30 07:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not Biblically sound to say that we have someone that is our soulmate. Nope.
2006-09-02 14:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you`re full of crap... you might need professional help, talk to your doctor about your mental health.
2006-09-02 14:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Alex 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋