I'm so mad at my ex-bf (we broke up less than a week ago) that i feel like being with another guy, making a video of it, and sending it to him. Try to convince me why i should or shouldnt.
2006-09-02 13:58:24 · 31 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he will hang on to it and show it to your friends and family. Paris Hilton, anyone?
2006-09-02 14:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jeannie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you're gonna do that, send it to me too. That way, when it makes it to the internet I'll share the money with you.
Do you think that doing something like that will help you feel better? Why are you so angry? If you feel used, acting on that anger is only going to make you feel used again. If he wanted to be with someone else, that video won't change that.
Whatever the reason for your breakup, in the end you will both be better off. People have a way of making each other miserable when they don't want to be together anymore. Mariages stay whole for longer than they should sometimes because there are more than the couple involved. Children complicate things.
It doesn't sound like this would be a problem for you though. The best thing you could do is go out with your friends, have a good time, and forget him. This will help you get on with your life and it will show him and the rest of the world that you are strong and independent. You don't need this guy.
Don't hurt yourself to hurt him. It won't work.
As far as having sex with someone else goes. There is nothing wrong with that. Many people, male and female enjoy having sex just for the pleasure of it. If you are one of them, great. Just be sure and be safe.
If you're not though, then don't. The great thing about being able to decide is that it's your choice and not someone elses.
When you do things for the right reasons those things are right.
Be carefull, be thoughtfull and be good, because the worst thing in the world is regret. Let your concience be your guide and don't let anyone make you otherwise.
Gool luck and I hope this helps.
2006-09-02 14:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by icetender 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so you would like him to send you a video of him screwing another girl, a dont think so, you may be mad at him, BUT does that make you want to make yourself look cheap, OK when he saw the video it may upset him or it may make him laugh BUT the last laugh would be his, he could make a copy & pass it around or send a copy on the net or even send your parents a copy, all of that would only make you look like a slapper, why dont you think of something else, or just ignore him,
2006-09-02 14:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you find it upsetting to see your video plastered all over the net and at local frat parties? How about your dad seeing it?
Umm Pamela Anderson and Paris Hilton come to mind here!
Think they regret it?
Sending him something to make him jealous/ mad hurts you worse than it would hurt him. It shows him you still have feelings for him, why else would you bother to do something so drastic to get his attention?
I say skip the sending it part , but if getting it on with another dude and taping would make you feel better...go for it.< just make sure YOU have the only copy ;o)>
2006-09-02 14:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by xqzme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his position. How would you like it if he sent you a video having sex with another woman. It would be mean and intentionally hurtful. I am sure you are not a cruel person.... keep thinking of new ways to get over him, this is a bad one.
2006-09-02 14:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes Is it wrong to screw another guy, make a video of it, and send it to your ex?
2006-09-02 14:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by jamey b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Childish behavior.Let it go,its not worth it.How would you feel if he felt the same way that you do,and sent YOU a vid of him...you be ok with that would you??Be wounded?physically sick?enraged?Just leave it,let sleeping dogs lie,best for all concerned really.
2006-09-02 14:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get it! You were upset with how it went between you and him, and you wanted to make video and sent it to him? What's the goal of it?
If you want to make him mad/getting his attention, there are still many "decent" ways to accomplish that goal without degrading yourself.
Hope it helps...
2006-09-02 14:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Boink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never do that, and I dont think you should...it wont make him feel all that great. Imagine if he did that to you or did something even worse....I know your mad but just talk it out with him you'll eventually get over it...I hope
2006-09-02 14:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by shine [: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! send it to him! he may even post it on the Internet for the world to see it! How would you like that?
2006-09-02 14:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Soldado 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg, yes that is cruel, no matter what... unless he did it to you first. you can do stuff with a guy infront of him. but dont have sex with a guy and send him the video, that's just wrong! he will be truamatized for life!
2006-09-02 14:01:22 · answer #11 · answered by jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋