If a guy you're dating for several months forgot your birthday, is that a sign that he is not that into you? The fact that you did mention during past conversations that your b-day is just a month ahead of his.
2006-09-02 13:54:40 · 20 answers · asked by RedColette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most women love the idea of men remembering all special occasions, moments, little things said etc etc but not all men are into that. as you have only been dating for several months, give the guy a chance to get into that stuff. in the meantime, remember his birthday and make him feel good as it's not only all about you, it's about him too.
2006-09-02 14:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better ot to argue. There's a reason for his forgetfulness and behavior, which you describe as "childish". I don't know his health history, but it could be Alzheimers - a doctor would have to run tests, etc. to diagnose. Your grandfather may be aware of his forgetting things and doesn't understand what is happening. This would be scary to anyone. If your aunts are arguing with your grandfather, it won't do a bit of good. Most people are in denial or a panic when they see that things are not going well with a family member. They have to figure out what to do for themselves and stop arguing. They may have to make bigger, more difficult decisions soon, and they need to be on the same page.
2016-03-27 04:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could very well be a bad sign. I'm forgetfull, but if Salma Hayek told me her birthay, you best believe I'd recall it or write it down all over the place so I don't forget! Put this on file as a big red flag and continue to observe his actions. He may be inconsiderate, and if it becomes obvious through his actions, you may need to consider finding a new guy.
2006-09-02 14:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can be very forgetful. My husband while present for the birth of our oldest child, middle child still cannot remember their birthdays without a reminder. He gets their dates confused. My youngest he remembers (she is 1 day after his brother and 2 days before mine).
2006-09-02 13:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men forget thier OWN b-days! Not a sign he lost intrest in you ... I'll bet he still knows where you like to be kissed! And your favorite food ect...I wouldn't worry...what was we talking about????
2006-09-02 14:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ... I forget ... but answering your question just made be a level 6. Hope it was good for you to. Oh, happy birthday.
2006-09-02 14:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes men only think of them selves and need you to be there 24/7 scheduler. if you dont let them know and REPET it a buzillion times wall there not thinking about sex, sports, or what ever office cr@p is going on. you need to stop reling on a man to jusify you and your special ocations your the only one that will care. oh and your mom.
2006-09-02 13:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they just have short term memory loss my boyfriend fotgets my birthday every year but gets me something 2 weeks later
2006-09-02 13:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good sign. He better do something really nice for you to make up for it.
2006-09-02 13:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by nj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is forgetful. cmon now. you know that you're not always perfect and you have probably forgotten a lot of things in your life.
2006-09-02 13:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kat B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋