If white men can get the asian girls, why can't the asian men get the white girls?

Question

Let me just ask this directly, are asian men in general just ugly?

Answer 1

In the beginning.. i though it was just a culture thing..

but after some careful thinking. i think the following is true...

1. Many asian male lack confidence.. I don't think it is because we have low selfesteem. But because that is the way we were raised. Many of us are told to make something of ourselves before getting married. We were told to get the highest paying jobs in America.

2. Asian male tend to like submissive girls. While american raised women are very independent. Males from other race also find that to be very attractive.

3. Asian male are brought up with respect, character, and was pushed to study very hard. Many time, lacking social skills and time to date.

4. Negative media.. protrays asian male as asexual and nerdy-type. What ever, i'm horny as hell, I actually have to tone it down a bit and now i'm just saving it for my future wife. Media also protrays white male is a bulky hunk.. The same media protrays asian women as exotic and very sexual. From experience.. some but most.. not really.

I have 4 white girls who were interested in me throughout my HS days.. they were a little agressive, and it kinda repealed me away.. If I were able to go back in time, I think I would get with two of them.

So my 5th point would be.. If a non-asian girl is intersted in an asian guy.. make that point loud and clear to him.. most of us are very conservative and its just because of our culture.


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Answer 2

I think it all has something to do with a "certain stereotype" that frankly isn't true. I think Asian men are in general pretty cute. My best friend, who is Korean (I know Koreans and Chinese aren't the same and don't really look the same either but this Is about asians) married a white chick. I think the thing is, most females feel alienated by a guy who is supposed to be light years ahead of them intellectually... and the white male is the "universal ideal mate" so everybody wants to jump on that band wagon... Don't let it get you down, you'll find somebody.

Answer 3

I'm asian and I can't get white girls. All I ever got were white married women. At least a pus_y is still a pus_sy.

Answer 4

I am asian and my wife is white- she likes the fact that
asian males are intelligent , hard working , and have
great jobs because most asian males like myself kicked
*** in school and have jobs that real men have- 150,000
at least plus- its that old saying - Money talks- plus most
asian males don't have to act like an immature *** - that doesn't
get girls- but some white guys who are stupid don't realize this.
some asian men are ugly - some white guys are ugly also-
some are just stupid on top of it.

Answer 5

Because white men are usually more confident and assertive than asian men, like myself. It's not a question of looks, it's just what women want. They'd prefer to have an assertive, not so good looking guy than a timid good looking guy. Plus, asian men, depending on their exact ethnicity, don't date outside the race tradionally. Plus, every white girl I've ever asked out has rejected me. I think white families tend to accept white man and asian woman better than a white woman and asian man couples(and vice versa). One last reason is white girls tend to be more shallow about race than asian girls.


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Answer 6

I've dated white girls before

Answer 7

What freak show did you escape from - - - Asian Men are Hot and a lot of Women go Gaga for them - - -

Answer 8

I think most asian men are hot

Answer 9

....well to be completely honest. Yes. No offense really--but the small eye thing just doesnt catch our eyes. But dont worry! Not all girls are attracted to guys's looks. Mostly we go for personality--so you could be the ugliest person in the world but we would STILL totally go for you if you were sweet, funny, modest and smart. Which im sure you are. Good luck

Answer 10

Asian men are equally as good looking as any other race. There are good looking people in each race and ugly in each race. Also pretty is as pretty does!