ok, i started school yesterday, right? and this guy that i liked last year is in 2 of my classes now...he's perfect 4 me......but the only problem is..i dont kno weather 2 ask him out now or what?. i mean we kno each other and we talk, but everytime someone tells me 2 ask someone out and i do, they say that i rushed things, but everytime i dont ask them out directly, they always get taken before i have a chance 2 even ask them out.....now with this guy, i dont kno what to do, i dont kno weather 2 wait and get 2 kno him more than i already do, or ask him out when i see him next week at school......HELP ME!!!!!! plz, i really want 2 go out with him....someone tell me what 2 do!!!
2006-09-02 13:41:06 · 11 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this isnt that hard... find out if he likes you.. get to know him.. possibly get one of your friends to convince him to ask u... or go ahead and ask him. the worst he can say is no.
2006-09-02 13:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by alliekatt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read "The Rules" book! First don't be in a hurry to rush relationships. Dear, this is the way life is men are the men are the hunters, consequently, women or girls should NEVER ask a guy out. A man will not respect you in the long run if you chase them. Men are supposed to chase the girls that is the way they were made. If you fall into the faulty thinking of chasing guys you are in for a lifetime of regret! Seriously! Let the guys be the pursuers no matter what. Just wait.
2006-09-02 20:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to a movie, etc. Find out what his conversation is because a lot of times something that looks good, isn't. Just remember to respect yourself because if he considers you as some fast azz little girl then you're just out of luck because if you want him that bad, he must be eye candy and guess what?? You are not the only one. A guy with choices will pick the one who he thinks his mom will like the most because he will get permission to go places if the girl has his mom's approval. Remember be a lady!
2006-09-02 20:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Essential 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what he likes to do, ie go to plays or a school dance, ask him if he would go with you as a friend. I stress friend because this will give you both a chance to learn if you have more in common. Eat lunch together. Just be friends, friendships grow into relationships and these can be even better. Good luck.
2006-09-02 20:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just keep on talking to him and one day close to a weekend just catch him off guard and pop the question. "So what are you doing this weekend?". "wanna go see the game" or "wanna catch a movie or something". It will not look like you are asking him out per se. Plz do it during a long conversation when you are both comfortable.
2006-09-02 20:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say'' Hey want to go to go bowl or go to lunch because you seem so, amazing I'ld really like to know you better and just be friends with you because you seem so well, amazing and ,nice, so how about it? '' If he says yes he must like you in some way not like that, butwell maybe . Don't make a move that is, if you're an old fasion kind of girl like me when it comes to boys.
2006-09-02 20:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lacey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should do is make him know/understand that your interested in him ( by flirting), but also during that time get to know more about him, so now you arn't rushing things, nor is he going to be taken because he sees messages that you like him.
2006-09-02 20:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by parentslittleprincess66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is it all the young girls are going mad to get a boyfriend, why cant you just concentrate on yourself, & doing well at school, if he likes you HE will ask you out, just hope he has the money to pay,
2006-09-02 20:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you feel you should , then ask him out dont listen to other people only you can know if its right or not,
2006-09-02 20:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by sw33tdanyelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur lame!!!!! I luv Panic! at the disco!!!!!!
2006-09-02 20:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋