he went out last night with friends. i was at work and i forgot to call and make sure he got home ok even though i told him i would. he's not the type to not call all day (very much the opposite),even when he's upset. i am really worried and thinking all kinds of bad things should i like call hospitals or something??? or should i stop being so overprotective?
2006-09-02 12:37:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I called him and no i don't think he's cheat. If he is i just hope he's safe.
2006-09-02 12:43:39 · update #1
Have you tryed calling him??? Call some of his friends that he went out with last night. And if they don't know what happened to him the call the hospital.
2006-09-02 12:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by the blonde chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feelings are very natural and i can understand so much the pains that you might be going through right now. I used to have that with my boyfriend as well. It threw itself right back in my face. When i used to question why he didnt call and all that. He didnt like it , he considered it nagging. Some men just dont get that we worry sometimes. But i also noticed that he did that because he was starting to pull away from me. If this is the first time its happened, then i guess give him a chance to explain himself. But if the phone calls become less and less ...over a period of time ... then something is wrong.
2006-09-02 19:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have a certain disorder (i forgot the exact name) where you worry to much. the kind of person who would call the emergency rooms if someone was late to meet you. (only someone who you really care about) this could be a problem cause it cna ultimately lead to "clinging" and that freaks us out. but this is only the most extreme case where the person constantly does it, so this is probably not you. you have every right to worry but if you are worrying throughout the night, then you should talk to a doctor. and you should talk to your boyfriend saying that he should call you on a regular basis becuase "you worry about him" (make sure you say that to him. good luck.
2006-09-02 19:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very important in a relationship if he has gone completely against his character then by all means start calling around .. something "could" be keeping him busy then again he could have gotten himself in a jam ...
Best of Luck to you
2006-09-02 19:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, hes likely gotten a DWI or DUI depending on which state you are in. It happens.. You should just get over him, mabey even delete his number from your phone. Good luck!
2006-09-02 19:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see his friends. Demand they tell you where he is and who he is with. Dump the loser after you find out he is cheating on you.
2006-09-02 19:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by noircorazon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his cell or some or the friends he was with.
2006-09-02 19:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Hil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call his parents and see watz goin on. but i wouldnt worry to mutch. when u always think the worst it actually turns itself around. keep yo chin up and dont worry.
2006-09-02 19:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Krispy™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. If he doesn't answer, call his friends and stop by his place.
2006-09-02 19:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his friends! Duh! Maybe he shacked up with some other chick last night and the guilt is eating him alive! Or the other girl is! Good Luck
2006-09-02 19:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋