last night i was at the mall with my friends and only the older guys like 16-19 year olds come and talk to me
i mean i dont care out at all its just like i am always hanging out or talking with the older guys
2006-09-02 12:33:37 · 30 answers · asked by texas_cutie_123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 13 years old
2006-09-02 12:36:22 · update #1
maybe you look older
2006-09-02 12:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by East Bay Punk 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because 13 yr old guys (though they're interested in girls already) may still be aftaid of girls. They'll be more comfortable spending time with other guy friends and playing games--either sports or computer.
Believe me, I know--I wondered the same thing when I was young, but after having 2 teenage boys I know they just aren't interested in the same things girls are. Girls are wondering if this is "the one" while guys are just goofing off.
The 16 year olds who would spend time with a 13 yr old? Ask a 16 yr old girl what's wrong with them that they aren't with girls their own age. Much less 19! Youch!
You still need to learn to be yourself, and learn how to have friends with other girls.
Some people think they will get good experience to know how to find "the right one" by dating lots of guys. What you learn is how to break up and not care so much. Instead learn how to be a good friend--thinking about others, that's the real skill you would use as a wife and mother.
2006-09-02 19:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably mature than most 13 yr olds and therefore project yourself as older. Most 13 yr old guys are still immature and gets really intimidated with mature girls that's probably why you get the attention from older guys. It may look like it's not a good thing at the moment, but when you get to be an adult, 4-6 years age gap is not really a problem.
2006-09-02 19:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Beachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the way you carry yourself. Take a look in the mirror and ask yourself (honestly) how old do you look. You may just be, too, matured for you age which is extremely dangerous, now days. Remember it's a new day and time. Make sure your attire is presentable and everything is covered that way you leave something to the imagination. If you expose yourself it's nothing else they need to know about you and you may intimidate kids your age. Be aware of your surrounding at all times.
2006-09-02 19:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Essential 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are either more mature for your age or you look older then you are. My neice is 12 but looks 18-19. That is a dangerous combination. Her father is going nuts. LMAO
Stay with boys your own age. Not only will it be better for you, but your parents (especially your dad) will be able to sleep at a night.
2006-09-02 19:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you look older, or have the type of beauty that only older guys can appreciate. Or maybe too intelligent for your age. 13 year olds like fun and very sweet-looking girls, you probably behave not like all girls of your age do.
2006-09-03 00:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mondschein! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older guys are attracted to u.
2006-09-02 19:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you probuly look older my neice i hardly see her but shes 16 and always get hit on by college guys becuse she looks 19
2006-09-02 19:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16-19 is "older guys"?
2006-09-02 19:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your probely so buetiful that the younger guys ur age r nersous to come and talk to you and the older guys knowing that ur younger feel like they can talk to you bc of age differnce.
2006-09-02 19:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by Crumbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows maybe u look older than what u r maybe they are only noticing u bc of ur boobs (if they r bigger or showing) or maybe they think ur a ho ( if u dress like one) i mean there can be many reasons i need to know how u was dressed or what u look like n ur age to figure out why they are doin it bc i dont know u i am just shootin out ideas...and dont send me hater mail i dient call u a ho ..i said blah blah blah ...like i said need more info to help figure it out
2006-09-02 19:39:22 · answer #11 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋