ok i will be 16 on the 15 of september and i dont know if i should loose my viginity to a 19 yr old or not but i really like this guy
2006-09-02 12:32:17 · 20 answers · asked by tempting 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha why wait? o yea because then its not legally rape anymore
I dont think you should
2006-09-02 12:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by ĵōē¥ → đ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard it's an entire campaign in the US(i'm from europe) to prevent teen having sex before marriage. here, we think that this thing sucks. so...let's see...you got married and after that, without experiewnce you try to make some sex. it's probaly to be pretty nasty cos the only thing you know it's what you've learned at school or told your mom vaguely. And there is another issue....what if u and your partner don't match, sexually speaking...so, sustainers of post-marital sex think again. I don't want to be wrongfully understood. I don't claim that's a good thing to have sex with everyone. But being virgin at an age over 20 I guess It makes u unsure about your sexuality(am i gay? :) )... I have some friends who are about 22-23 years old...and thet have't had a girlfriend yet...not even a kiss....
2006-09-02 19:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mihnea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. If you are unsure about whether you want to give it up to him or not that means you shouldn't. Besides why give it to a guy you "really like" when you can wait a couple years [you've already waited 16 what is another 2 or 3??] and give it to a guy you love.
Plus having sex with this guy might get him into trouble depending on what state you live.
2006-09-02 19:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is the guy you do really love then do it. What you have to do is think of thses tihngs.
How long do you want to be with him?....months, years, marriage?
What would you do if you got pregnet?
What if you got a STD?
What if you got cought?
All i have to say i swait until you feel ready Dont do it just because your 16 and you want to. Im only 15 and i gave it up tp my BF on June 6. I dont regret it i just wish i would of waited until we were in the relationship longer so it could be perfect like i thought it should be.
2006-09-02 19:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nessy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well theres alot to think about in losing the big V. Like, do reallylike this guy that much??? and, Do u have to ways of protection ageinst pregnacy prepaird? and, do u know how to corectly use those ways of protection? If u feel uneasy about any of these questions my answer is: no ur probly not quite ready but if u r positive about these things then yes u r probly ready!
2006-09-02 19:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by purplechick888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! No!! And No!!! Wait and give yourself penty of time. A 19 year old shouldn"t be with a 15 year old or a 16 year old.
2006-09-02 19:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it unless you really love him. Loosing your virginity is a big deal and you should make sure you are ready for the consequenses of sex ( aka - children) if your birthcontroll method fails
2006-09-02 19:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by bamf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud the fact that you have been so vigilant with your womanhood. But make no mistake, it's your first - so make sure he's worth it. And make sure you wait until you are 16!
2006-09-02 19:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sherlock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you shouldnt just like him you should LOVE him
theres alot of things to consider.. like do you trust him? do you know he loves you and isnt just in it for sex? since it's illegal... u have to be very careful lol.. and dont do something you would regret! make sure you're 100% positive before you do it and dont let him pressure you into it..
2006-09-02 19:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depens the way you fell about it, and also if he is worth it..............some guy don't deserve to love them that much to want lose your virginity just think if he really loves you. After that you could dicide in my opinion don't let your heart be follow.
2006-09-02 19:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by la_salvadoreña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you said "like." Don't bother with this chump. Wait for love.
2006-09-02 19:45:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋