I really like this guy but i just have the feeling i cant trust him i dont know if it's because i'm scared to open up and give him a chance but i just feel like if i get in a relatonship with him i will get my heart broken. he says he wants us to have a relationship i cant help liking him so what do i do even though i feel afraid.
2006-09-02 12:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then go for it... no regrets. However, take it slow and open up to him over time. Time will tell his true nature and if he is honest and sincere it will come out. If not, that will also come out... Either way, best of luck to you and I wish you the very best. There are too many people unhappy in this world. Please remember that you do not need a man to define who you are.
2006-09-02 12:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts--if you have a strange feeling that you can't trust him, that instinct is coming from somewhere. Maybe your subconscious is picking up on little clues that he is self-centered or using you. If he was a great guy, you would not be scared to open up and give him a chance--the fact that you are indicates that there is a problem. It is always bad to start a relationship with someone who already makes you question their integrity. Don't worry--a better guy will be along soon.
2006-09-02 19:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe start by telling him you want to get to know him better, i know it helps me a lot to get to know the guy and gain his trust before anything further continues. Trust is a main part to a relationship. It always helps to know that you can both trust each other in every situation. You are probably scared to open up, most women are. You dont want to get your feelings hurt over pointless reasons, I know how you feel. If you feel afraid-just get to know him better.
2006-09-02 19:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by dursh_babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i agree that your conscience is trying to tell you something. I would explain to him the same thing you just told us. Tell him, that you are interested in him, but something is telling you that he can't be trusted and that he might end of breaking your heart. This will put him on guard, that you already know that something is up with him. Explain to him that you will need time to think about being with him and that if you should one day decide to give him a chance and he breaks your heart, then you will have no problems breaking up with him. I think this would be a good way to give him a heads up, that he'd better treat you right!
2006-09-02 19:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never know until you try...Give him a chance on a try basic.
If things are the way you want go more serious.... if they are not just stop and look for someone else just make sure dont give any desert until you be happy.
But remember you never know unless you try and is better to said at list I try than what if....
2006-09-02 19:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Soyam I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just starting a relationship, but don't open up, until you know if you can trust him. I have been in this situation before, so I'm able to look back and say from experience.
2006-09-02 19:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Writer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go wit him if u feel its ya destiny to b wit him but b4 u say yes to him make sure he undastand u wanna take it slow (dont tell him thix part) cause u dont wanna get ya heart braken and dont get to attached u neva know when he might just let u go
2006-09-02 19:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already feel you can't trust him don't start something with him. You are probably right.
2006-09-02 19:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is never tell him how much you like him coz he can use it against you if you like him but you have a feeling you cant trust him just go into the relationship but dont commit your whole self ..........................................GOOD LUCK
2006-09-02 19:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by akubeze 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust your instincts and run
2006-09-02 19:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋