i really like this guy, and i was wandeding what guys look for in a girls personality
2006-09-02 12:02:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I like women that are kind and optimistic. You know, everyone loves to feel appreciated. But if you're kind and optimistic, you'll make anyone you love feel good about you and themselves. Feelings just rub off on people that way. Of course every guy will be different, but kindness and optimism are traits that anyone can appreciate. Now don't pretend to be kind and optimistic, or take it to a disgusting extreme! If you're not, you can simply be open minded and just change the way you think. Good luck!
Oh, yes: don't forget honesty! That goes along with kindness, because it's unkind to be dishonest.
2006-09-02 12:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? it depends on the guy. If you want the short scientific answer, facial and bodily symmetry, and cues of high fertility(such as boobs: hip ratio)...
But all of that means squat. A girl can be very attractive, and the guy might at most use her for sex, but no relationship will develop. A guy worth having will want a girl who can keep him entertained(by making him laugh or by conversation). Guys are secretly as sappy as women...but they hide it behind sports.
If you really like this guy, ask him questions about what he likes. He'll appreciate someone taking an interest. if you have anything in common, you might find something to do together for a date
2006-09-02 19:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Chit P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, for one thing, your nick name love to laugh is a great start. Guys love if you laugh with them and at their jokes. They also do not like it so much if you you are critical of them, so if you have something to say, it must be really carefully presented to them. I also think that guys like what everyone else likes... people who are honest, decent, and good natured. The shallow guys will put looks before personality, but you don't want one of them ne way.
Most of all, be yourself and see if he allows and encourages you to continue to do so. We can't put on a show for a long time.
2006-09-02 19:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guy tells me that he likes the way i am a little shy but confident at the same time. But also very trustworthy, and comfortable to be around. And he also says that if you take pride in yourself and life and not change for him, that is really cute too. Good luck with your future men!! (hopefully no boys, :)
2006-09-02 19:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It differs on the guy but i personally like them to be honest and sweet. Up front and down to earth.
2006-09-02 19:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sadly, "good grief" is correct in many cases, but the decent guys look for a sweet personality and a girl who is caring and fun to be around. :)
2006-09-02 19:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by pieninja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think guys like girls with a little less attitude, good sense of humor, thier trustworthiness and that they are smart and sweet.
apart from the fact that a girl should have a good figure etc., that is.
2006-09-02 19:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by oleander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if this guy is the shallow type, he will focus on your mid section, your butt, and your breasts. (not to be rude). if he is the
"i like her for her personality" kind of guy, he wont care much about what you look like, he will focus on your feelings and what you want and dont want.(if he is this kind of guy, go for him)
2006-09-02 19:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by HoustonJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for special and positive things.
2006-09-02 19:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A vagina, nice large breast, and a good size mouth. Oh yeah, they look for easy girls with low standards also.
2006-09-02 19:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Perplexed Princess 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋