im a 15 years old gurl who find other girls attrctive is it wrong 4 me n im also looking 4 another bi or les to talk to
2006-09-02 11:54:55 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for what you know
2006-09-02 11:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
In the area that I live in(washington d.c) being a bisexual or gay seems to be what's in style, when girls are at the club they start rubbing on their friends butts or holding hands because hip hop has everyone thinking that it's cute for women to date women and they think every guys fantasy is to have two women, example: "my girl got a girlfriend"-young dro. At your age I would not encourage you to act on your emotions, it's o.k to see another female and think she is cute and I hope you're not confusing the two, just because you think another female is pretty doesn't make you a lesbian, I read earlier that some guy told you to watch out for the crazy christians, well I am a follower of JESUS CHRIST, and I probably could recite a scripture about homosexuality being an abomination but i'm not, what I will do is ask you to ask GOD to help you figure out the feelings you are feeling right now, do you ever see yourself having kids? if so have you thought about the impact on a child that has been brought up in a same sex household? the parents are usually very caring but that doesn't stop other people from teasing these children and making them feel out of place, I pray that you be freed from anything that is making you feel confused or angry or anything that's not from GOD in JESUS name, AMEN
2006-09-02 12:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by aminalovesjesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO many girls ur age are attracted to other girls, and probaly experiment with mutual touching, even masturbation. But you may or may not be truly bisexual.
Time will tell.
Understand that if you have an enjoyable sexual experience with a girl, it doesn't mean that you are les, either. But if U get to a point where you don't like boys, well. . . . .
It could lead to problems when you establish relationships. Say you are Bi, and have a relationship with a girl , and then you have sex with a guy. You know how enraged a jealous woman can get!
OW!
2006-09-02 12:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Personally I would suggest you like just hang out with the ladies/girls and be their best friends.
Being les, gay or not being either one of them is what you call a "status relationship", it just represents who you are in a relationship. I mean I have friends who a bissexual and they are like totally comfortable with me! Both gays and lesbians. Of course there are times which they wanted to take it anther level. But that is when which I will make my stand.
You have to ask yourself, what is the best thing for me? Friends are there to help you, if you find friends who oppose who you are? You need to ask yourself again. Are they really your friends? Do these friends have your interest at heart? So yup! Nothing wrong to find another girl or other girls as long they and you just treat each other as friends.
OF COURSE unless you tell me, there is a barrier between bisexual people and normal people. Then I must say, that neighbourhood you live in seriously needs a change in mindset.
If there is anything? You can just msg me.
Cheers!
2006-09-02 12:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are truly bi, you have a problem. But it's not necessarily wrong and you are not alone. Yes, that's a good idea to talk to other bisexuals, but I don't think the computer is a good forum cause you don't know who is for real and who is fooling you. So you might get some bad advice. Go to your school counselor and ask for some help to sort out your identity. The counselors will keep it private.
2006-09-02 12:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also 15 years old, and I'm bisexual. No there is nothing wrong with finding another woman attractive or having motives to kiss her or anything like that. Your sexuality is of your choosing. And just finding other girls attractive doesn't necessarily mean you are bisexual. All women find other women attractive at one point in their life. Now wanted to having the desire to be with another woman is a different story. It all depends on the way you look at it. But no there is NO problem with being bisexual.
2006-09-02 11:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is NOTHING wrong with that.
Racists are @ss-wholes and so r people that judge u according to what sex Ur interested in.
It is all up to u.
Who u love is between u,the partner, the lord, and the devil.
NO ONE ELSE ON EARTH CAN MAKE THAT CHOICE 4 YOU.
And you better not let them 'cause its is to hell none of their business.
2006-09-02 12:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no nothing is wrong with u. You be who u want 2 be and don't let anyone bring u down and your only 15 you have your hole life 2 go a head so have fun with it cuz u only have one life take care. Bye
2006-09-02 11:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what morality one has, bisexuality is the most amoral of all sexual orientation choices. At your age, it is typical to have confusing feelings. Choosing to act inappropriately on those feelings is what defines your sexual orientation.
Overall, bisexuals just care about sexual pleasure, not true love. Whether hetero- or homosexual, there is the possibility of monogomay and love.
2006-09-02 11:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by sjpadilla1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the classic straight male, I am homophobic to any male on male sex, but cheer the women. However, you sound too young to be sure of much beyond experimentation, as much as I'm sure you will hate hearing it.
The same rules apply as far as being faithful in relationships though. Cheating is cheating.
2006-09-02 11:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by Andre1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your personal beliefs are, I personally don't think it's ok, but I do think you have free will to choose what you want. Just because I am personally against it, I don't want to force others to think the same way I do. But I do have to tell you something, at the age of 15 you may not want to decide something like that yet, you still have a long ways to go. Either way, good luck!
Right on!
2006-09-02 11:57:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋