I'm the fith child of seven. I'm in a family of nine. Two moved out. And my siblings have pritty much no respect for me at all. People also think my life is weird. Is my life weird, am i weird, and how do i get over it?
2006-09-02 11:54:13 · 15 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
everyone was born in a way and many feel like outcasts.
im one of them. But what i do is thrive ahead and makes sure no one messes with me and my friends and family. All you have to do is think yourself special. No one is perfect. You see all those popular people at skool who seems to get everything their way. But infact they have something that you dont. Think about it
2006-09-02 12:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Cero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what the world calls unique--and what your siblings, for their lack of maturity, call weird. That is not necessarily a bad thing. Just think of Albert Einstein who could not master the multiplication tables, or Abraham Lincoln who was ridiculed for his high-pitched, squeaky voice or Donald Trump, who kept knocking over the other kid's building blocks! Look at what they accomplished.
If you truly have no friends at all, you might want to consider counseling. That doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you as a person, but a counselor may be able to guide you in finding people who appreciate who you are.
Just remember that it is usually the ones that march to their own drummers who have the greatest success in life.
All the best. . .
2006-09-02 12:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can completly relate with you on this. I am from a family of 9 children, 15 if you now cont step brothers and sisters. No you are not wierd. Everyone of us has turned out different. I promise you are going to be normal as the rest of your family. The hardest part of growing up in a large family is finding your own identity. My older sis was in basketball, 2 of my brothers were in football, another sis was in track. I wasn't into any sports, therefore, making me the "wierd" one. I was into everything else. I would rather be in the house cleaning and learning how to cook than outside playing in the dirt. Don't worry, just give it time. YOu will be able to realize you are you. Good luck!
2006-09-02 12:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not weird at all! Don't listen to other people. By the way, siblings never have respect for anyone but themselves. Don't worry about it my life is like that too. In the end your siblings will respect you. In time.
2006-09-02 12:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on your definition of weird. i know im weird and am proud of it.im called a weirdo all the time. your siblings have no respect for you cause your the oldest and probably look at you as a authority figure. hold your head up high and be proud of your weirdness, all it really means is your an individual away from the norm. dont get over it, accept yourself as who you are. once you do that, others will too.
2006-09-02 12:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by chris l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have little respect for yourself. Why would you expect anything less from others. Believe in yourself do something with your life make changes show what you can do. Respect cannot be bought it has to earned. Above all remember this you have a life live it the way you wish.
2006-09-02 12:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by froggerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defenetly not. I know a family that has 12 kids and each are mentally slow but two (the mentally slow ones are taken care of)..., but anyway, you're not weird, special and unique in your own way. don't listen to the bozos who say you are werid, because you're specail.
ahem. anyway. try talking to your parents about this. if your siblings dont show you respect, ignore them - pretend they don't exist - period!
2006-09-02 12:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not a single person in this world that is exactly the same as another living creature. put this in your mind..and get getting with your precious life, that is no. uno. then stop comparing yourself to siblings or others...we are and you are all different. life is what you make out of it. not vice versa....-- in conclusion -- life is a series of decisions we make every day, every hour, every minute -- decide now what you want to be, to do, to walk, to sleep, to kiss etc.etc..and then get going and adjust your move according to your body and your inner feelings. YOu have to pay me for that good advice. enjoy.
2006-09-02 12:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is wrong with being weird!? That just means you have your own identity and aren't jumping on bandwagons.
2006-09-02 13:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by shadowsonic2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being wierd isnt always bad. i am different. It is our kind of people that give the world colour. So, dont get over it.
2006-09-02 11:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋