I told him to stop calling me when I got back w/my ex. And he said that that hurt him. (He was "the other one" when I had a boyfriend. Now I am the "other one" & I don't like it. I want him back, he says that he has 2 be sure that I won't hurt him again. He tells me that he loves me when we talk, & I surely love him. He says his girlfriend knows about me because she sees my # on his cell. But she doesn't know that we have sex. Should I wait around until he is "done" w/ his girlfriend, like he waited until I was done w/my ex?
2006-09-02 11:49:08 · 38 answers · asked by rlwld1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't play this stupid game. Get out. Who is getting hurt here? Him or you? Don't wait around! The waiting game is the game boys play when they want to keep you around for a rainy day. You are being used and abused. "let's just be friends" is the best way to handle this, but even better than best is to never see either of them again. Gross. I would never share a man with any woman. That is my bottom line. I hope this helps.
2006-09-02 11:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
JB_ENT is not too far off the mark. Fortunately, God forgives. Other than that, what in the hell do you think you're doing? This conversation would be appropriate among chimpanzees, if they could talk. You must realize that you are a low-life ***, don't you? Find yourself a nice, smelly blow up doll and call her your boyfriend. At least there will be no danger of children, which you're now apparently capable of. God forbid. Love you!
Oh, wait. This is a fake. You GOT me! I should have realized that there is no way this could be for real. Not in The United States of America anyway. Thanks for the laugh. You really had me.
2006-09-02 11:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. This is classic. You seem to know that a clean break is what's best, but obviously he is into massaging the pain of dragging it out, hoping to keep getting nooky.
He'll always have the potential threat of telling your boyfriend to hang over your head. He needs some kind of shock therapy to convince him it's over, but wait, you said you still love him too... have you told him that? If so, you'll never get rid of him.
Hope you find a way to resolve this mess before somebody gets stabbed.
2006-09-02 11:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Andre1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my response would be, NO!!! I would not go as far as to call you a whore. You and he are niether one married. It is not like you are busting up a home or marriage. You should not sit and wait for him to end this relationship wih his girlfriend. It is my opinion that he is simply playing you for a fool. Keeping you around as a back-up plan if this relationship goes bad.
2006-09-02 11:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant stand the waiting,make him choose, coz this kind of situation is unfair for u. u shld put an end to this now or never or else u will soon lose ur self respect,obviously he is toying w/ ur feelings but u are not aware of it coz u r blinded by ur love 4 him. nobody can sail on two seas so he has to be considerate as not to cheat on u or her gf.
2006-09-02 11:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of tramp do you see yourself as?
Are you so unworthy of this cheater's full attention???
Do you have to have someone who's dipping his wick in two women, . . . . . . and truth be known, maybe 3 or 4? You are pathetically desperate, and desperately pathetic.
Get some help for yourself! You need some self- esteem pills! ( and some birth control pills too!)
2006-09-02 11:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait ,wait, wait.Sex complicates everything.Clear you head for a while and lay off the premarital sex.Remember if you love something ,set it free. If it is yours it will return, if not it never was.Good luck in making a decision.
2006-09-02 11:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an idiot and he's just sayin that because he enjoys your body and nothing else.. hard to accept but when a guy want something he will do anything and he will say anything just for you to stay.. and what makes you so sure that he wont do the same to you? tsk tsk and he even dare to say that he doesnt want to hurt her gf? that's bs!! even though his gf doesnt know about you guys he's still hurting her and he doesnt even dare to respect her.. who'll like that doing things in your back?? and you like a man like that???
2006-09-02 11:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both kidding yourselves.
And it is not funny with the people you are hurting in the process.
Nevertheless, it will backfire. But if you have sense, do not wait for it. It's not gonna be OK
2006-09-02 11:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Josh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you thinking? you are wrong, how come you are having sex with a guy who has girlfriend, do you like to marry a guy who have 4 or 5 girls? one day you will be sorry, he will cheat on you, and maybe one day you will cheat on your husband, stop you are destroying your life
2006-09-02 11:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋