Ignoring always works. Unless of course they don't want to talk to you anyway.
2006-09-02 11:44:18
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answer #1
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answered by vernise2679 4
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I think ignoring the calls. Right now I and my son are going through hell because of his former girlfriend. She is constantly calling and telling him about her kissing another boy and others that she has dated hoping they will get back together. She is 13 years old and he is 16 and he realized that it was a BIG mistake to go with her in the first place and broke it off but she has her friends calling to get them together again but that is not going to happen. All the bull is making my son stronger and stronger every day. She can't take no from anyone.
2006-09-02 18:49:55
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answered by stubbornmom2000 2
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ignoring them... never mentioning them.
guilt is a natural response when a person recognizes that they have wronged someone. you can not impose this value upon others. you can badger them and get them to say they are sorry but we all know that they are doing it out of a sense of obligation. If you really want an apology that means something... wait. if it doesn't come from them and they know you are upset (ignoring them should take care of this) then they really aren't worth talking to.
Best of luck. I have always had a hard time following this advice and found that taking up a new but small hobby (cleaning out my closet, losing 5 pounds, walking the dog, or even perfecting a certain recipe/ meal) has worked for me.
2006-09-02 18:49:34
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answered by artful dodger 4
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Ignoring them will work but won't may or may not get your message through. I usually ignore a few times to see if they are persistant and after that I will pick up, hear their side and tell mine of course making them feel guilty if they are wrong.
2006-09-02 18:46:17
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answered by Rx 4
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Try being honest, without being manipulative. Game playing never works. If you have been hurt, and they still want to be with them, it is ok to call and say, "That hurt my feelings, and I hope that doesn't happen again." Of course, if they hurt you to push you away or worse yet, punish you, run like hell. Nobody should be in an abusive relationship.
2006-09-02 18:47:08
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answered by Anonymous
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A little bit of both. Ignore them for awhile and then answer a couple every now and then and make them feel bad. After that, just forget them.
2006-09-02 18:45:39
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answered by InsufficientLoser 3
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If you call them you are annoying little winer and now they understand why they dumped you in the first place. I have brothers. Men can't stand to be ignored like it doesn't mean anything to you. They will come to you. Never go to them.
If they don't come to you they really are glad to be rid of you and move on to someone who wants you.
2006-09-02 18:47:43
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answered by Anonymous
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First ignore them so they feel bad and hurt that you dont seem to like them. Then call so they feel happy that you are speaking to them again. THEN make them feel bad!
2006-09-02 18:46:31
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answered by calypsocirce 3
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Ignoring by far. Dont respond to calls, texts, emails, or anything. The more unavailable you are the better. Drives em nuts!
2006-09-02 18:46:48
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answered by craig e 1
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so, i take it you're into revenge? well if the relationship is important to you, i suggest you take the call, tell them that they have hurt you. If you ignor or do not take the call, they may not understand what they've done wrong. if you value the relationship, take the call and tell them the truth. be honest in all your relationships.
2006-09-02 18:46:25
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answered by Alterfemego 7
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If the person hurt you, calling them will annoy them....not make them feel guilty.Go ahead, ignore the person and he/she will feel guilty, especiallly if he/she are the one calling.
2006-09-02 18:46:47
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answered by Anonymous
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