FYI ....some guys who can get women do pay for lap dances( or sex ). A lot of women don't seem to understand this concept. Some guys pay for sex not for the sex itself but for the convenience of commitment free intercourse. It is basically like ordering take out or buying fast food . You could cook a home made meal but you don't want to deal with the tedious preparation and clean up. I see a lot of chicks get this concept twisted. Just trying to broaden you perpective, you could get played thinking otherwise.
2006-09-02 11:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by Chula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all good.
A guy still pays whether it's a professional girl or one he dates.
He's still taking her out. So he's still paying.
It's marriage that doesn't make any sense to me. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. And there's a whole lotta free milk out there.
2006-09-02 11:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they do because they treat you like that after knowing that you do. I have paid for sex numerous times and it has become my little dirty skeletons in the closet habit but I do believe now that I can't get the girls I want or as easy as it is to pay for it, but I love the convenience, variety, and no rejection that's involved in paid sex. Maybe I'm weak but so be it
2016-03-16 00:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Miguel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thank you sweetheart for broadening my horizon. You've just proved to me once again how absent minded men can be but I'm sure, under all of that analysis of the pay for sex concept, you could end up being played by a female. Be careful it is a two sided coin.
2006-09-02 11:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally never thought of the concept, but I would think that its not that we don't understand this, its just that its hard to understand why you wouldn't prefer an authentic and meaningful relationship over a cheap quick-fix. BTW, I would actually rather have a home-cooked meal with all the work that comes with it over fast food any day. But to each their own...
2006-09-02 11:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by asreid14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering I used to work in the trade as an escort I think any guy can get sex for free. Most of my regular clients were men who were married or had girlfriends and they just wanted a non-committed relationship because their gf or wives were no longer interested.
2006-09-02 11:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that, I just believe that the majority of them are desperate, and why should you pay for sex when you can get it for free. I know its not really free because you have to give time and effort but you shouldn't be having it if you're not ready to make sacrifices for it. I just think its sad and those guys deserve the STIs they'll probably get afterward.
2006-09-02 11:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha no not all women think that... my friend can definatly get a girl if he wanted 2... but he will pay 4 lap dances 4 the heck of it... or 2 make the girl feel special or just cause he doesnt wanna get a lap dance from sum1 he knos 2 well
2006-09-02 11:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Chelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, thats not the case. A guy might be unhappy in a relationship. Personally i'm not into larger women. They just don't flick my switch. The trouble is, my wife has put on about 40 pounds and won't do anything about losing it so i'm no longer excited by her appearance.
2006-09-02 11:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of there are ingrained physiological and psychological features in adult adult males that force the could desire to mate. notwithstanding if somebody isn't esthetically attractive to ones eye, issues like pheromones, sturdy dermis, enormous hips etc. sign to the guy's subconscious that she is virile so subconsciously she's nonetheless an beautiful woman to him notwithstanding if he would not think of she is attractive. using fact adult adult males are greater interested in chasing women human beings and sound asleep with women human beings, then women human beings could be greater picky - even the fewer than attractive ones. a woman's force for intercourse comes greater from an emotional point of view and additionally the force to procreate. intercourse for a woman, had the reward of bonding her to her substantial different - nonetheless does, the place a guy's want for intercourse grew to become into as quickly as all approximately passing on his genes. while picking a guy, we desire to p.c.. the main powerful, maximum dominant male. as quickly as upon a time, this meant the guy who grew to become into the fittest, could desire to out-run the saber enamel and rivaling tribesmen and introduced abode the beef. at present it skill an knowledgeable and handsome guy with an honest income, self belief and a steady interest.
2016-10-01 05:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah......of course I knew that already. I still don't think it's anything to be proud of, though. Any guy worthy of respect doesn't treat a woman like a commodity. It just means he's weak because he can't handle a woman being a whole person who is complex and has a personality - he justs wants sex to be one-dimensional. Pretty lame.
2006-09-02 11:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋