My parents have been deceased for about twenty some years. Now I ahave been dreaming about them and wake up crying because, I am lonesome for them.Can anyone make any sense out of this?
2006-09-02 11:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Honoring your parents is important. They are an important part of who you are, and they always will be. Having feelings, even strong feelings, can be a good thing.
Try to set aside some quiet time to think about them, their contributions to your life, and maybe even visit their grave to "talk" to them. Try to view this as something that will add a significant value to you and your life.
And try to keep their picture or important symbol of them in your home. You will be rewarded, in ways you and I can not understand today.
Cheers
2006-09-02 14:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Monk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, something must have triggered you to dream about them.
Dream of loved ones already died = reminder.
There may be some reminder that your parents said to you. And perhaps in movie, or people you have interacted with said the similar things or do similar things trigger you to dream about them. Subconsciously you have the feeling of loneliness because there are some words that you have not spoken to them. Or perhaps, you are closed to be a parent. (may have a child or getting married or dating ) Love is the great element that caused you dream like that.
Perhaps your subconscious mind is asking to go back to the happy moment. And that moment is when your parents were alive
2006-09-02 18:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams for me, mean I'm asleep. Now, if you have issues about your parents.Especially since they have been gone so long ago to a better place. The time of 20 years is a long time . Perhaps, a perfessional person would be good at this time. My parents too have been gone for a long time. I missed them then, and I miss them now, and I will always miss them! It helps me to think that their spirit lies in me.
2006-09-02 18:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to be like that dreams mean what has been going on around the house so you a little trouble with you parent well you fell sorry for them that they are having this problem so you really don't like it so you having dreams about it just try to help them out don't be so tent's about it that's why your having dreams . p.s i hoped this worked!
2006-09-02 18:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams featuring family members can be reassuring. they may give us confidence and support, or they may concentrate on present or long-term problems from which there seems little prospect of escape. (book of dreams by julia & derek parker)
i think in simple terms, you wish they were here to help and support you through areas in your life now. even though its been many years that they've been gone, you miss them. its totally normal, just picture them smiling down on you from heaven. hope this helps.
2006-09-02 18:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dreams are often what your heart wants to come true. You want to see your parents cause you miss them. It's OK, dreams are just your subconscious mind dreaming of what you want but might not have. Good luck, and pray to god to heal your pain. well god bless.
2006-09-02 18:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by rebeandphantom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just means you miss them. Losing those close to you is a pain you never really get over.
2006-09-02 18:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there someone in your life that reminds you of your parents? maybe this person is still alive, but something is missing with them. dreams almost always have something to do with our lives today.
2006-09-02 18:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents might be burning in hell and they are trying to warn you about your ways?
2006-09-02 18:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to a therapist. no one here (unlesss they are one) can give you as good as advice
2006-09-02 18:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋