2006-09-02 11:07:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i dont no u should think about ure life ahead of u and express ureself not other ppl if u have sombody that is a friend and tells u to do it u should do it when u are ready
2006-09-02 12:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say how old you are, "girl", but assuming you - and "he" - are under 18, you should do... nothing! don't be in a hurry to go all the way around the bases to home; if you and the boy haven't started dating, begin as friends, and just move ahead day by day. even so, it sounds like, from your question, you two are already going out. my advice remains the same. Sex, as good as some people may tell you it is, is something worth the wait with the right person. it's joked about and glamorized in movies and tv, but those, for the most parts, aren't real relationships. work on building your relationship 1st, and if either of you begin to pressure the other one to go past 1st base, he(or you) isn't worthy of your company. you may have heard of a so-called "virginity pledge". this is where yuong Christian men and women sign a contract (with their parents, pastor, youth leader) to remain a virgin until marriage. personally, i hold this position on sexual relationships for a virgin. unfortunately, some of these "pledgers" take it to mean you can do anything as long as - and i'm sorry for being so graphic - it doesn't involve vaginal penetration. it's up to you to determine how far you wnat to go with "him" or any young man. until you're married, the choices you make with your body are your own (or, if you're a Christian, between you and God), and don't let this boy make choices for you. certainly your parents, or whatever adult authority is in your life, has some say in this, if you are under 18 and living in their home. but the bottom line is, with your own virginity, it's up to you to hold onto it until you're willing to make a long-term relationship commitment with each other. please let me know if this was helpful. you are a very honest and brave young lady for asking this question in such an open forum.
2006-09-02 18:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by manuel r. g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great, don't feel pressure to have sex. Your first time should be special,........it is always special with the one you love. Sex is something your should discover with each other, but know the facts. Know about STD and risks of pregnancies, and how it will effect your life. Think of the possible out comes of your actions and ask yourself is it worth it. The choice is yours but i advise you to set your virtue at a high standard. Please wait till your are married, make a stand. Show others that you are a prise to be won, not tossed away like a trifle. His ultimate goal should be to marry you, that mine when i am dating someone.
p.s. being a virgin is a major turn on!
2006-09-02 18:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by MASQUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being a virgin. If you love this boy and he loves you he will be willing to wait until you are both ready. Give it alot of thought before you decide. After all, you have held on to it this long, why not longer. Sex changes everything and makes it more complicated.
2006-09-02 18:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait you have a long time ahead of you. Or are you 30? Are you 100% sure he's a virgin?
2006-09-02 18:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Geneddly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not worth waiting until marriage, you may be disapointed by alot, just have sex with him, experience life. Nothing is written in the bible which says a man or women should or must remain a virgin until they get married.
This is a myth, started 1000 years ago, by parents,
2006-09-02 18:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-02 18:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you and him feel comfortable with. No pressure. You both are at an advantage that allot of people don't get anymore. And if your both virgins and are together. Then you both should be comfortable about anything you both decide to do.
2006-09-02 18:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by earthmothermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about having sex before it happens,because there can be consequenses ,thats why usee protection at all times..it dosent matter if youre both virgin's sex is not like something you need to learn it just comes naturally the things you need to do
2006-09-02 18:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are both of you and make sure you both know the consequences and make sure you know what it can do to the relationship and mind
2006-09-02 18:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by themancoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋