I met this guy and hes only 2 years older then me, but when he met me he thought i was older, he thought i was 15 but im really 13, we had a really great time, he asked me out and now we're 2 gether, but i cant find a way 2 tell him my real age. How can i do it with out him getting mad and leaving me?(p.s this isnt Taisha B. this is he little sister Tatiana)
2006-09-02 11:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Taisha B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a realtionship can't handle honesty...it's not a "real" relationship. It's a lie.
2006-09-02 11:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay well i have had the same situation simply go up to him and ask him (i dis this and it worked ) have you ever lied too me ? he'll say no why whats going on tell him how much you like him and all and tell him that you have been lieing to him for a while... tell him that your only 13.. if he gets mad and breaks up with you then honestly he has every right too.. he may not trust you anymore though... look here sweetie your only 13 and your going to have plenty more boyfriends....
2006-09-02 18:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I think hosnesty is the best policy. That said, you need to understand that there are ramifications for having lied. By this I mean that if you come clean, he could decide to move on (or not!). So, you need to be prepared, and also learn a lesson for the future- no lying.
2006-09-02 18:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by auntgrace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is generally the best way to go. You two are together so he obviously likes you so just tell him. You're both under 18 so two years is no big deal.
2006-09-02 18:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me sweetheart,the truth does matter.if he gets mad at you,then it wasnt meet to be.plus starting to lie to him now,will just lead into more lies.and the truth also comes out.whether it be a month,to a year it will come out.so if you really care about him ,honesty is the right road
2006-09-02 18:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by jenni s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him b4 he finds out from someone else bcuz if that happens its over 4 sure, be up front and honesty is alwayz the best policy. good luck.
2006-09-02 18:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Honesty is the best policy , because we donot have the fear of false answer.
2006-09-03 04:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by DNSS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy really likes you, he isn't going to dump you. If you didn't tell him your age, and he just assumed your were 15, then it is his mistake. If you want to be honest and tell him, do so quickly.
2006-09-02 18:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes honesty is the best policy and u should tell him ur real age
2006-09-03 00:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by anshulgupta1988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is such a thing as suicidal honesty but in your case i would tell him very soon because you never know what he may want to do together with you and if you don't want to be put in a compromising situation you better tell him sooooon!!!!!
2006-09-02 18:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by Dick Dastardly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋