I need sum Advice!?

Question

Ok so I have always been the girl who is shy and is afraid to ask people out. So I have liked this guy ever since we met when we were little.. So at the first of the year last year he asked me out. At the end of the year there was this really hot guy that told me he liked me. Well I liked him 2. So he told me to break up wit my boyfriend and go out wit him. I was goin to but I couldn't do that to my boyfriend. So this year the guy still likes me and I like him but I still like my boyfriend. So I need sum advice of how to break up wit my boyfriend without hurting his feelings and asking the guy that I like out.. Plz help I have been so sick bc I don't know what I should do.

Answer 1

You must be a youngster -- an adult woman would know better.

If you don't want to be with your bf anymore, just tell him so. People drift apart, these things happen. There's no way to do it without hurting his feelings, though. Be prepared for the guilt, for you will have earned it. You'll get over it.

Now, is your only reason for wanting a breakup a desire to "trade up?" If so, that's pretty low. Granted, you'll have plenty of other relationships as you get older, but dumping a bf because someone hotter expressed an interest in you is way not cool. How would you feel if he dumped you for a prettier girl? Show him the same respect that you'd want him to show you if your positions were reversed.