Well I can't get a long with my sisters and I feel like my father like my younger sisters better, earlier he went to pick my mom up from work and My self along with the netx to the oldest girl stayed home and when my fathert returned he started fussing about us talking back to our mom, well all of us talk back to her but they only yelled at me and then he started hitting me and chocking me, well in other words, he jumped on me beet the hell out of me and then right after that he called the police on me.
2006-09-02 10:33:56 · 11 answers · asked by Robin R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You never really asked a question. But if your the oldest maybe thats why and you should know more than your youngest sisters. Thats ****** up tho. When you turn 18 you should leave. I turn 18 next yr.
2006-09-02 10:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Nellz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Confront your dad and sisters about your feelings. Maybe, they themselves have misunderstandings about you and you about them. Ask a neutral common friend/family that doesn't know the situation and have them hold a session where everyone speaks of their feelings. Apologize for anything bad you might have done to them even if you don't think you did. That way, they'll start being nice to you and respect you. Tell your mom about this in private maybe before hand and have her talk to your dad and sisters without you. Maybe then things will get easier by compromising.
If your dad keeps abusing you or something, tell someone about it and don't be afraid to tell even the police, even though your dad called them. They will understand the situation.
Also, you're almost an adult, so if nothing settles down, go to a far college, where you can take some time away from them and when you go back home once in a while, the problem won't be there. Some space might ease things, believe it or not.
Don't worry, they are your family. If they don't support you, then you have a problem. Most likely, that won't happen!
2006-09-02 10:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out of that house if this is true. call the cops on him next time. there is no reason to wait until you're 18 even if it is only 3 weeks. when in doubt hit him in the balls. twice if you have to.
2006-09-02 10:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your father is physically abusive, then you go the authorities. if you don't think you can make it into a shelter before your 18, then try moving in with a trusted friend or an adult that can help.
2006-09-02 10:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that your mom is clever she will attempt to communicate you out of seeing this guy. i think of which you're too youthful to be a step-mommy, teenagers don't have teenagers and your boyfriend is fairly youthful to have a newborn and the two be divorced or is in simple terms irresponsible. i'm satisfied for you which you discovered somebody you care approximately yet realistically i don't think of it is going to final for assorted motives. the reality that he would be turning 21 numerous years earlier to you potential he will have the potential to get into places the place you won't be able to bypass (bars, golf equipment...) which will open up an entire bag of recent stories and temptations and if he beverages that makes it worse. i'm not attempting to be mean to you in simple terms attempting to be sensible. you in addition to mght do not want him to resent you through fact you whinge which you won't be able to bypass someplace he desires to bypass.... you're additionally basically a newborn, even at 18, and have yet to journey what existence has to furnish i've got faith unhappy for you in case you decrease your self at this age. are not you going to bypass to college.....and extra suited your self? besides, i for my section do not think of the relationship you're in will final and that i think of that it's going to basically income you, the two way stable good fortune.
2016-11-23 19:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart your dad has a temper problem and you need to call the cops on him.I know it'll be hard on you to see your dad in trouble but he needs a reality check. He can't beat on you no matter what age you are. Please get some help.
2006-09-02 10:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Yummy Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police that he beat you up and send his *** to jail!
2006-09-02 10:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by sub.lihhjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are asking this from jail wow the have computers in jail i am impressed
2006-09-02 10:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call the police on him
2006-09-02 10:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Meow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup whatever
2006-09-02 10:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by naturalselection 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋