he really treats me very good and he makes me feel very special by doing deferent things so he can be with me.. but he has neve told me that he loves me even thought he shows it.... does he love me or not.. we ae going out only 10 days..... i have already told him that i love him
2006-09-02 10:10:05 · 16 answers · asked by athina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, you already told him u loved him after less than two weeks? Slow down hon, you have plenty of time for love. If he treats you well and you have fun together then just enjoy that for awhile and relax and dont worry about labels like that. Slow down and enjoy the ride.
2006-09-02 10:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you think you are rushing things a bit? No, I don't believe it's love. Anyone can do nice things for you and make you feel very special. I could see your concern if you'd been going out for longer than 10 days. Love is like marriage or any partnership...you don't enter into it without being sure. Maybe your new boyfriend is not ready to make that kind of committment yet. Your relationship is still new. Give him time and don't pressure him into to saying something that he may not feel YET.
2006-09-02 17:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First there is attraction. It's the seed. The love has to have time to
grow. Ten days, the seed hasn't even sprouted yet. What is the
rush? Good things are worth waiting for. Have some patience!!
2006-09-02 17:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you can really determine whether or not you love someone within only 10 days. My grandparents, however, met and married within only two weeks. That was during WWII and they are still married. I, however, would give it some more time. I think if it were trully love, you would know. If he hasn't told you yet, he obviously doesn't know. I don't think I would pressure him, but you could always ask.
2006-09-02 17:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Phyllobates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young...a word of advice don't throw the "L" word around so easily. That is a good way to scare a man off. Men take their time saying that they love you...it's just their way. 10 days is not that long to go out with someone...give it time, if it's love it will last and he will eventually say and mean it.
2006-09-02 17:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by stitch_fan22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only ten days and u want the guy to tell you that he loves you? give him a little time on that...most guys take a little while with that, but if its 8 months down the road and it still hasnt happened then maybe u need to reconsider him....but if he really love you, you will know it and feel it.
2006-09-02 17:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by dawnee27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going out for 10 days... and you told him you love him ?
i think you got some issues.
i think he has every right not to say he loves you if he doesn't.
he might just "like" you.
but don't take any offense or be upset he hasn't said it yet. 10 days isn't long enough to know if someone loves another person.
2006-09-02 17:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by artist.returned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love takes time people change you dont need to be told your loved if hes showing it appreciate that. He's probably trying to get to know you properly, you cant do that in 10days.
2006-09-02 17:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 days???? No what you are feeling is infatuation not love... Love takes time to build...
While the two of you are enjoying your time together, he is very prudent in not expresing love ( a very deep emotion) flippantly and indiscriminantly...
2006-09-02 17:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not just yet. Wait about 6 mounth too a year and see.
2006-09-02 17:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Err 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋