well basically im in this relationship with a girl her name is Daniella
she is 17 and so am i and we have been together for 7 months alwready and weve been realy good our love is great and is expanding but the thing is we do get intamite no not sex but its just my love for her has grown so big that the thing on my mind is that i want to have sex alwready but she doesnt know i understand why its becaouse she gave her word to god that she wouldnt have sex till shes married and she has to keep her promise becaouse a promise to god is a promis kept i would do the same in her position but i want to so bad she doesnt know how bad so what should i do someting is in my head saying must have sex must complete erge but im not going to have sex with another women im not a cheater so please someone tell me what i should do im in need of dire help im getting desperate Help!!!!!!!! me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-02 10:02:16 · 7 answers · asked by pricanvalentin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is a minor and by law whether she consents or not, it is statutory rape and will get you into a world of hurt. Stop whining. The lady has a good set of morals. If you can't respect that you need to get your butt out of that relationship.
Putting her down or disparaging her morals shows a lack of respect for her and is an expression of your own inadequacies and immaturity.
If you truly love her, then respect her wishes and simply bite the bullet and wait. If your love is true, you will not force her to do anything she doesn't want to do. The old ploy, "I have needs that you aren't meeting" is a load of crap and you know it. You push her now, you may lose her. You try the oral sex ploy on her and you will lose her respect and once that is lost, forget the relationship. Or were you attracted by lust and not love in the first place?
2006-09-10 09:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it. You do not want to make her pick between you and God. She's smart not to have pre marital sex and i believe in the same thing so you either gotta take a break from her and cool it or let her know that you're thinking about it and let her decide if she needs to break up with you. Don't stand between her and God you''l lose, not God.
2006-09-02 17:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take matters into your OWN HANDS and take care of your sexual urges yourself.I don't know where your girlfriend draws the line in your mutual sexual expression but there are a LOT of things you can do with/to each other which don't involve actual penetration and are still mutually satisfying.
In these times I think you're very lucky to have found such a committed girlfriend.
2006-09-02 17:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by pat z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she should at least be giving you oral sex and hand jobs...if she argues, just teller a) you have to give and take, - you agree not to have sex, then she must give oral.
an b) you have to take care of your partner. You have needs that aren't being taken care of. If she refuses to do this, she is selfish. Plus you're both 17, and you shouldn't get married until your in your 20's. There's no way you guys are gonna wait. She's eventually gonna give it up, I bet.
2006-09-02 17:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by HockeyFan999 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you need to respect her. She made a promise to God. She needs to keep it. You shouldn't cheat on her. You should wait until she's ready too. You should let her know how you're feeling in the relationship. If she needs to wait until she's married, and you love her as much as you say you do, you'll wait until after you marry her. Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2006-09-02 17:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by moon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE AN IDEA. PULL UP YOUR PANTS, FIRST OF ALL. SECONDLY, GROW A PAIR OF TESTICLES.. AND FINALLY.. BE A MAN. WHO GIVES A DAMN. AND IF A GIRL ISNT READY TO DO THAT YET, GET OVER IT. IF YOU WERE GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH SHE WOULD PROBABLY DO IT WITH YOU ANYWAY.. SO THERES YOUR PROBLEM IN A NUTSHELL. CRACK THE NUT OPEN AND START GOING TO WORK. BY THE WAY, IF YOU ARE UNDER 17, HAHA GROW UP FIRST.
2006-09-02 17:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Joshie Fresh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does she believe in foreplay? messing around but not having sex? you can do that, right?
2006-09-02 17:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋