Ok, there is this thing about girls.
When you go to clubs or bars and you go there all alone, girls DONT look at you, ignore you and stuff.
But when you entered surrounded by girls, and then you get a table and you are there dancing and having fun with your female friends, girls stare at you, and they even go talk to you there!
why ???
I mean, that happened to me just yesterday, I was there with some girls, and the other girls I had never met were talking to me...
Ive heard couple of friends that say girls do that for 2 reasons:
1.- They like to take away a guy from other girls, just for the fun of it, and when they do it, that makes them feel special.
2.- They are interested in meeting guys who are surrounded by girls because they think "Omg, he must be funny and interesting, There's something about him, I have to meet him" etc...
Is this true?
are there any other reasons?
2006-09-02 10:00:50 · 8 answers · asked by alvarito8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aite check it : Girls don't lyke a guy let me rephrase we aren't interested in a guy who seems to be alone. you can say that we look for a guy that is some what the life of the party yet conservative. So that was one of the major reason why they were interested in you.
Also every Gurl has a jealous side no matter how much we deny it. So seeing you surrounded by ur girls really lets say turn us on and at the same time makes us jealous of the gurls ur with.
2006-09-02 10:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by RATROACHES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, maybe it's true. I'm to young to go to bars and clubs, but I agree with the 2nd option. If your with a bunch of girls then it makes you look interesting and it makes the girls think: Why are all those girls around that guy? Is there something special about him? Yeah that's what I would think, but I would not bother going up to you because well I would know that your just hanging out with girls who are your friends and plus it would show your a ladies man who would be hard to get because you might get like a **** load of girls falling for you lol
Ciao~
2006-09-02 10:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your second answer is correct. When a guy is out, and wants to pick up women, he should buy drinks for all girls, not just ones he interested in. When you buy a girl a drink, it starts a conversation. So every time a girl looks over, you're talking to girls, and not the same ones (which shows your single). Girls start to wonder what this guy is about, since he has all these girls talking to him. This sparks curiosity...then you kill the cat! ; )
2006-09-02 10:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by HockeyFan999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only ones that would look at a guy & have anything to do with him for the rerasons you gave are the ones you should stay away from.
People that drink alone appear to have a problem with alchol. If you have to large a group with you, you seem unapproachable. I would never approach a guy that has another woman with him! Why aren't you approaching them?
2006-09-02 10:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls might be thinking when you are alone that there is a reason why you are alone you might be a creep! When girls see you have other girls that are your friends they probably figure you are a fun guy or good in bed.
2006-09-02 10:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you are alone people may think that you are not friendly and may be with reserved mentality ,but when you will be with your friends they too want to enjoy with you.
2006-09-02 10:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by lovely g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-02 10:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so do you really have a question or do you just want confirmations of your thoughts?
2006-09-02 10:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋