i want someone to no i exist so i ill do anything to myself i used to cut myself but now i think about it i probably wanted people to reconise me and i was hurting inside am i sick
2006-09-02 09:55:29 · 16 answers · asked by bitter sweet 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
no darling you are not sick
you just want someone to notice and care about you
and i'm sure there are more people then you realize..
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die
for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like
you.
4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't
like you.
5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
6. You mean the world to someone.
7. If not for you, someone may not be living.
8. You are special and unique.
9. Someone that you don't even know
exists loves you.
10. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.
11. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.
12. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but
if you believe in yourself, probably, sooner or later, you will get it.
13. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.
14. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know.
15. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.
2006-09-02 10:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by plurmishmishfish 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not sick i'm 22 yearsold now and I don't cut on myself anymore but I do know where your coming from because a year ago I use to cut myself with a razor everytime I would do it I would be upset about something or I would be hurt about something especially when I felt like my husband didn't love me anymore or he wasn't giving me attention or I thought he didn't care how I felt I would cut myself the cutting got so bad my husband was afraid to leave for work he thought sooner or later I would end up dead I use to cut myself cause of my pain and I wanted my husband to recognise me more my husband used reverse psychology on me like go ahead and do it and the more he said that I didn't want to cut my arm cause I knew it wasn't getting me anywhere the more my husband would make a big deal out of it I did it more cause I knew I was getting a rise out of him and being noticed one day I went to cut my arm and I tossed it aside and vowled to myself to never do it again I said to myself my husband loves me and when i'm in pain I can talk to him I don't have to cut my arm it's been a long time since i've done it I praise god that I don't do it anymore now I can talk to my husband about things and handle pain better NOONE is sick for cutting their arm it just shows the person is in pain or they rather hurt theirself then others your not sick don't think that way if your still doing it please get help if not then I hope your still doing good
2006-09-02 15:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look in to getting some CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) to figure out where and why these emotions are occuring. Then you could learn some techniques on how to better deal with you emotions. Cutting yourself is not healthy physcially or emotionally. There are reasons why you did that. Figure out what they are. If you can't on your own tallk to someone who can help you get to the bottom of it. Also,you may want to consider some anti-depressants.
2006-09-02 10:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not the best idea to be doing this, one of my friends used to and we tried to get advice from experts in this field. their answer was to ignore the cutting and not confront her. i think you probably do need some counselling for self esteem you sound like a good person. Hope this helps and hey i now know you exist!!!!!
2006-09-02 10:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by mazza 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cut yourself people are gonna noticed you for the wrong reasons. if your confident and show people that your a nice person theyl want to approach you and be around you. cut and you get people asking 'how did you do that' and when you tell them they think your wierd. from an ex-cutter x
2006-09-02 10:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by cleo the pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not sick, but you should seek help either from family, doctor freinds to bit this. Best of luck
2006-09-02 10:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by roses12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek help for self mutilation. You may find the answers to all your questions in therapy.
2006-09-02 10:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by catzrme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need help for you self esteem. Take care of yoursel. There is someone who loves you.
2006-09-02 10:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by hillman7919 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not sick but it sounds like your very low in mood but trust me cutting is not the way to go
2006-09-02 15:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by summerlands_shadow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you are not sick you just need a little help just now you must try and talk to someone mum,dad, sister
2006-09-02 10:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by madscoott 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋