If you tell a guy to quit calling and he does but now he emails all the time. How can i make him stop?

Question

I met this guy from friend over the phone. He was nice at firts but then had something different about him. He began calling me all the time. If i didn't answer the phone he would call right back. He would call me while i was working. It became annouying. I quit answering his calls. I told him i would call him later. If he didn't hear from me by the morning he would call early and ask why i didn't call him. Then he started emailing me. One day after i came home from doing my laundry i found a note on my kitchen table. It was from him. No my door was unlocked but he went into my house when i was not home. Now he keeps sending me messages via email. I delete them but he keeps sending them.

Answer 1

thats really scary

you need to be COMPLETELY honest with him. tell him you are not at all interested, and that you don't want to hear from him. It's very rude (and illegal) for him to come into your home like that.

you can block him from your email, and maybe even your phone, but obviously he's not going to take that as a hint

tell him straight out: "stop calling, dont email, and leave me alone" you can be kind, but you MUST be firm. (guys often times think that girls will change their minds) so tell him that your word is final and to go away.

if he doesnt do it, call the cops immediatly, this is sexual harassment, and you could need a restraining order. you could get hurt if this guy is as creepy as he sounds.

Answer 2

First, I would for the band aid fix, set a rules in your email to have his go right to the deleted folder/trash. It is easy to do and will keep you from feeling immediately harassed. As far as his unsolicited contact you may want to consider a restraining order if after you write him a letter (which you keep a copy) to inform him he is to leave you alone. Keep on top of this and stay alert. I don't mean to scare you but he is demonstrating stalking type behavior. If his emails become threatening you do need to save them as they will help maintain a restraing order if it comes to that. The fact he went in to your home is disturbing and should be taken seriously.

Answer 3

You can block him from your e-mail. Delete him from your contact list first then the next time he e-mails you put him in the spam file and that will block him from now on. Oh ya change your phone # And tell your friend who introduce you to him how much of an a s s he has been. Maybe they can talk to him!

Answer 4

Be nice, but u could tell him u have a bf and Ur not interested in him anymore. If he doesn't get the point firmly tell him to stop. If he still is being annoying call the police for him harassing u.

Answer 5

the basically right reaction is not any reaction. allow him say even with the reality that he desires to say to make himself experience more effective like a 'guy'. of direction u see that he's a low existence. If he keeps contacting u, change ur kind/e-mail.

Answer 6

Set up a filter that dumps all of his email directly into the trash, or change your email address.

Answer 7

Sorry, I'll stop...joking I'm JOKING people!!

Tell him leave you alone anad set up filters like the others suggested.

Answer 8

when dealing with situations like this, you cant be nice. spell it out. dont say please dont mail me anymore, rather "look you idiot, leave me the hell alone coz i dont need you stressing me. you dont do it for me and even if you were the last guy on earth and i ran out of batteries, i wouldnt talk to you..." he might get the idea.
good luck :)

Answer 9

it's quite simple actually! Just enter his e-mail in the bulk folder and ignore it

Answer 10

Tell him you want him to leave you alone, and if he doesn't, get a restraining order.