ok , my freind has given four years to a long distance relationship, he has never given her a number ,?

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she has never visited his home, she has devoted compleatly , intorduced him to all of us , never even so much as looked at another man and she knows just about as much about him as i do , is she getting played ?or can someone really be justifed to have this much privacy in his life.she asks for these things he dodges the bullet evertime , i think she deserves to have the answers for the queastions she asks , they used to work together and he moved. i dont know what to tell her

Answer 1

he's probably married. she needs to just cut him off and play her cards like she's holding ACES.
she is giving him all the power and he gives her nothing.
is she really that desperate? it's very sad to think that someone
could settle for so little.
you may want to have her see shrink....she's got serious self esteem issues.
you are a good friend:)

Answer 2

She is a naive little fool. He is either married or has another serious relationship going on. Tell her to hire a private detective. He needs to be checked out.

Answer 3

Sounds like she may end up getting hurt. But at least she has not been wh0ring around for the last four years.

Answer 4

sounds suspicious. usualy when someone won't share their private life and doesn't feel give phone number, just sounds like he is hiding something. if he is constantly dodging and avoiding questions instead of putting them to rest i find that very fishy.

but it sounds like your friend is into him deep. she might deny that she is getting played or refuse to see it. she might just be heading down the road to being hurt deeply.

Answer 5

Tell her he is married. Tell her she just wasted 4 years of her life and to move on and not to waste any more time. Time is something you can't get back.

Answer 6

Sounds married...sorry~

Answer 7

She is being played "big time!"