I met a lady (real nice) on yahoo 360, she flew out here just to see me. But i just dont feel the connection. we have sex - and its ok, Now she wants to move out here, move in with me and become like my sugar mama. She makes good money, and it has all the posibilities of becoming something great.
2006-09-02 09:32:48 · 10 answers · asked by nunofyobiznit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like you both are going to fast, how about slowing down and thinking more about it, if you don't really love her, why use someone just for sex and money, especially if it's a woman and you are the man, it's usually the other way around.
It sounds to me that you are impressed by her money and not real love, remember fools rush in, why rush, it takes a long time to get to know someone, and for a relationship to be meaningful and with substance, doesn't it make you a superficial person, and do you feel okay about it? If you don't feel a connection, it's simply because there is nothing there, you'll end up hurting her and you'd only be kidding yourself, take the time to get to know her, if she wants to move there, perhaps you should let her know (it's not a good idea) or you guys are moving too fast, she shouldn't do that, she is not thinking, but you do!
2006-09-02 09:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by You are loved 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she did you better in fantasy than in reality.
You led her on up to this point. How is she gonna make good money where you are?
Computer relationships don't always work out in real life due to the absence of spell check, edit time and the convenience of only dealing with them when and where you feel like it.
If I were you, I'd stay in Mom's basement. Hit her up for gas money on the way to the airport.
2006-09-02 09:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Chronic Observer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the connection you want, better tell her subtly you are not yet ready for a tied up life...
But since you already have sex and she makes good money, maybe you can reconsider.
What would you want with your life..??
Think of the future, bright or dark with her..
Or you can just accept things as it is happening now, and leave everything to fate and your day to day event
2006-09-02 09:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are sincere about it having all of the possibilities, then great. But if you are using her then forget it. Let her move out here only if you will be good to her, don't cheat on her or treat her badly.
Good luck
2006-09-02 09:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you truly dont love her then tell her, tell her you dont feel the connection. but if you think it could be a great relationshiop give her a chance. maybe youll come to find she is the best one for you.
blessings!
2006-09-02 09:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Margarita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her move in tell her how u really feel and u could just be friends.
2006-09-02 09:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It'll never work if you don't feel the connection.
Don't mislead her to moving if you don't really want her.
2006-09-02 09:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Heather J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, she knows now! So I'd say talk to her.
2006-09-02 09:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by professor x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your slime. Don't take advantage of women. It gives you a bad rep.
2006-09-02 09:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kirsti 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
& u ask?
2006-09-02 09:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋