Ok so him and I have been on and off off for about 5 months.This time we've been together for about 2 and a half weeks and we worked things out so we're together hopefully forever.
But his mom will call me to talk about him and she calls him if I see her and she has to be nosy about everything.How do I say it bothers me without hurting her feelings or ruining a relationship that I want to have with her?I'm only 15 and he's only 18.She shouldn't be so pushy right?It's not like I need a push to be with him.I'm not goin anywhere..so how do I talk to her?I mean really this woman needs help.
2006-09-02 09:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by ArmyGirlfriend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've known him for about 2ish years..maybe a lil less, but around there
2006-09-02 09:29:41 · update #1
Tell her you are not comfortable discussing personal things with anyone and you would appreciate it if she respected that. If she ignores it and keeps asking questions, tell her you have to go now and end the conversation. You need to have a talk with your b/f and explain to him you do not like his mother calling and asking you things and you're not going to put up with it. Either he understand and respects that too or he doesn't. If he doesn't then you have a whole other set of problems to deal with.
2006-09-02 09:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, someone at your position of residing is accessible in, takes over laundry chores, and throws out your resources? NO way. Throw an equivalent volume of her products away besides, and tell her you probably did so, and if she ever does this on your products ever back, the outcomes will be worse. Reasoning isn't an option, she has already acted in a fashion that shows us all that she doesn't reason nicely. At worst, she must have informed her opinion of your underclothes. Throwing them out is between the worst maximum disrespectful issues i have ever heard of! also, he has no longer performed more beneficial than the different guy would. i understand for a undeniable reality that a real guy would tell her to under no circumstances attempt this back, and would then make her ask for forgiveness to you, pay you back for what she threw out, and if she refused would make her get a motel room. hard success for her. She desires to prepare respect to earn it, throwing away issues which at the prompt are not hers in a house that isn't hers is dazzling!
2016-10-15 22:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its important to have trust and understanding between your relationship.Your relationship with him should be nice. Because if you are good to him and you love him like anything he'll definitely not bother what his mom wants him to act . According to what you say, she really seems to be nosy but trust me mostly every mom acts the same way b'coz of the insecurity of loosing their son. So, try to talk to him(your boy friend first) and then together sought something may be some soft conversation is needed between you and her or may be between him and his mom(acc. to your plan/circumstances)
2006-09-02 09:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by s s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first and let him know then maybe u both can tell her 2gether that way u know he really does want to be with u but there is no easy way to tell her without hurting her feelings.
2006-09-02 09:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect shes's just very concerned about stuff like unwanted pregnancy, both your educations. Remember, he's legally an adult and your not. What do your parents think?
2006-09-02 09:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by dawnee_babe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend about it, and put it in the nicest way possible!! Maybe he could talk to his mom about it, and then there would be no hard feelings between his mom and you. good luck!
2006-09-02 09:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup just think about ur going to say
2006-09-02 09:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Hilda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her! She needs to mind her own business!
2006-09-02 09:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by MiLuv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve been seeing this dude since you were 13?
NASTY!! your just a kid
2006-09-02 09:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋