Trial day with family?

Question

im looking for a job as a nanny, im fully qualified and police checked but the first 3 interviews i went on were unsuccessful because of my age ( just turnt 19 ). last week i went on an interview that i thought it went really well, the family were nice and the kids seemed to like me. i have been asked back next week to do a trial day. i have never been on a trial day before so am not really sure what to expect. i REALLY want this job, i think if i don't get it i am going to give up on nannying and just get a job in a nursery.

any advice greatly appreciated. should i prepare some activities to do with the children? will i be left in charge of the children or will the mum be there with me? what can i do to make sure i definitly get the job? the children are aged 22 months and almost 4, they are both girls.

Answer 1

I don't know for sure but I'd like to make a few 'guesses' that might help.

I am a Grandma so have a little more experience of family life that you - though you are FAR more qualified than I!

I WOULD prepare something interesting (and possibly educational) that the girls can do together; but don't make it something that looks like you have over prepared for the day - remember you will be looking after these children EVERY day - and every day can't be 'party time'.

Difficult I know - why don't you ask about their 'normal daily routine'? Shows interest in the girls and consideration for how they are being raised. Then you can ask if any of your prepared activities would be acceptable - leaving the choice up to the parent. Your suggestions could include things like a walk in the fresh air or feeding the ducks (if any locally) or drawing or painting if wet

I don't expect you will be left alone in the house with them; but mother or father will probably be in attendance to observe how you handle tantrums and tiredness etc.

Don't forget to ask about naps - if little one is still having an afternoon nap you need to entertain the older child whilst still listening for the sleeping child.

A roll of lining paper is a wonderful prop when you have little ones - it tears into drawing sheets or rolls out to protect huge areas from small sticky children - or they could draw their own snakes and ladders game on it and then play it - with themselves as the counters!

Best advice I can offer is

1) Don't be too stressed - children have a 6th sense and may play up if in the company of a person on the edge of freaking out.

2) Tell the parents how much you would love to look after their little girls. (Parents LOVE to hear that their children are especially appealing)

3) Explain to parents that as this will be your first job as a Nanny you are up to date with all the latest innovations, full of enthusiasm and would be SO happy if they would give you the chance to prove yourself.

You might like to offer to do a month on a trial contract - so they can see how well you get on with their girls before they commit to a longer term contract with you.

I wish you the very best of luck - if I still had small children and were looking for a Nanny you would definitely warrant an interview at least!

If it doesn't work out THIS time - don't give up - maybe a short term contract in a nursery would give parents more confidence in your ability; as you would then have 'work experience' and presumably a good reference.

PLEASE let me know how you get on (e-mail me)

When I clicked on this it was "be the first to answer" but I've spent SO much time on it my answer it's probably on page two! Hope you still take the time to read it and you find my suggestions helpful.

Answer 2

Normally a trial day is where you'll be assisting with the child care. The parents may leave you alone for a short while depending on how they feel its going...may just be that they aren't in the same room. Always a good idea to plan something - best not a messy activity though!!

If possible get some written references off other people you have worked for. Used to be a Nursery Nurse and Nanny but no expert. Hope that helps a little bit.

Answer 3

It seems to me as if they are seriously considering you for the job, and just want to see how you interact with the kids to see if you are a fit for the family. Definitely prepare some activities.... this will show the parents that you can be creative, productive, prepared to work, and are interested. Choose something that is age and developmentally appropriate for each child. Incorporate something that will be a hit no matter what the child likes... like playdough or dress-up clothes. Make sure to be professional- ask what the children's likes/dislikes are, if there are any allergies (you don't want to bring candies made with peanuts if you have a child who is severely allergic), and what the household schedule is like. Wear clothes you would wear to work in on a daily basis (you aren't going to go play with toddlers in your best suit). Probably, the parents will not be too far away, that way they can observe you, but the best thing you can do is be genuine. Kids can usually tell if someone is putting on a show. If you just act as you normally would, you will be comfortable, and the parents will see your actual personality working with the kids. Age will not matter when you find a fit with a family. I started working in childcare centers when I was 16, and by the time I was 19, I was Lead Teacher of my own class. Children know when people are "kid people" who like and enjoy children, and they will gravitate to them. Focus on the kids while you are there (but don't pretend the parents don't exist if they are trying to tell you something) and you will win them over.

Answer 4

mom will probably be there. I'm sure they already have activities and toys etc. When in doubt take them to the park. If you want to be a good nanny remember you a re being paid to interact with the kids - not other nannies or your own kids so stay clear of that, find out where the nearest hospital and police stations are and learn CPR and first aid. Turn off your cellphone or tell all your friends you ll be at work so don't call you.

Answer 5

A trail day could and should include all of the above. The family needs to see how you will interact with the girls.. You should bring some games and be prepared to have a watchful eye on yourself. No parent in their right mind would leae their small children with a complete stranger. Bring books, and colors, perhaps even colorwonder items(less messy) . Search the neighborhood for a near by park. Check it out in advance and ensure that it is a safe enviroment. Study up on some childhood games like duck duck goose, Here we go 'round the Mulberry bush, try and create a book of memories with the girls and you could share it with their parents...Good luck!

Answer 6

The parents have already told you about the children I am sure. I would learn all I could about the things they in which they have an interest. I would have some games and songs that I could play and sing with them. I would not wait for the parents to ask me to do something. I would jump right in and help. I would ask intelligent questions. I would get down on the floor and play with the little girls. I would want to learn about the schedules and any expectations they might have. I would have fun and enjoy the little girls.

Answer 7

YES, prepare activities and art work for them to do, make sure whatever you prepare will work for both the 22 month old and the four year old. I don't know if mom will stay or go but either way going prepared will make you look great, and they will know you are serious about the job.
Good Luck!!

Answer 8

Go pre-pared have some ideas and equiptment for things to do with them, my guess is you wont be left compleatly alone Mum and / or Dad will be there most likely watching at a distance. If you dont need/use what you took, no matter it will be there when you get the job.
Good luck