2006-09-02 08:32:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It fealt like the whole world was closing in, and there was no reason for me to be alive anymore. It fealt like all my support and love and everything I had in my life didn't exist anymore. The only person I could talk to about it was my mother because I had lost my best friend and my lover. I didn't tell my mother, and have lived with that hurt for over 10 years. Thanks for asking. I feel much better thinking about this and looking at how it has affected my choices up to this point. I am afraid of committment, and giving myself wholely to any man. I don't develop close relationships with women when I'm in a relationship with a man. It's easier for me to develop a new relationship with my man's ex's than it is to have one of my own. I don't like this. I want to change that. I need women in my life. Thank you so much for asking this question. I hope you got something from this.
2006-09-02 08:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on your boyfriend inclusive of his basically right pal. first of all, human beings do not cheat in a courting. truly have one or the different wreck it off than cheat. what's the point of being decietful. it would not count number no matter if you've been both "inebriated" and "lost in the instantaneous", you cheated on him. in case you had sufficient feeling after to experience to blame, then you extremely could've had sufficient feeling to draw close what the f**ok you've been doing in the first position. Secondly, basically right buds are basically right buds for a reason. And basically right buds do not f**ok one yet another's female/boyfriends. So he's basically as a lot as to blame as you're. You both did some thing terrible and he has a real to draw close. So, truly of really you going to inform him, deliver his basically right pal alongside with you. That way he can get indignant at both one in each and every of you together and he gained't crack the sh*ts at 2 diverse places, which could maximum probable lead him to desirous to homicide the both one in each and every of you. do exactly not do it again to the subsequent guy you eventually end up courting.
2016-12-06 04:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by kasemeier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really really upset!!!!!
if it was the best friend that told u then at least thats something bcoz they value the friendship enough to risk the friendship by telling you
if it was the boyfriend or girlfriend then thats good too coz they could have kept it quiet but they wantd u to no the truth
but if u found out from neither of them then u shud move on from them as they dont value u enough and u can do better!!
either way both of them will hav to do a LOT to make it up to u
infact who knows? will u EVER forgive them both? do they MEAN ANYTHING to u now? after all they have done?? do they DESERVE u???
2006-09-02 08:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Betrayal is the worst feeling in the universe. It just sucks all of the air out of you. I never said a word, but they somehow found out that I knew and blamed me for them fooling around. I ended up cutting them both off for good. I still didn't say anything, I just walked away. They both were no longer worth any more of my time or energy.
2006-09-02 08:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would feel very betrayed and hurt! But if that's how low a best friend will go what else is she capable of doing to hurt you? I don't think I would really concider her a real friend at all! And if that's how much he thinks of you I'd say dump him and find a real boyfriend.
2006-09-02 08:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by rockinshewolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both immediately. You are worth much more than them 2 cheating a*** holes.
2006-09-02 08:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by zaazzy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel like I made 2 mistakes...
one in choosing a girlfriend
and
the other in choosing a best friend.
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2006-09-02 08:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by DM 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would start yelling and crying again. I wouldnt speak to both of them for a long time
2006-09-02 08:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is not a best friend. A real friend would not stab another friend in the back.
2006-09-02 08:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad. Looks like you need new people to hang around.
2006-09-02 08:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Fartbuster 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋