do NOT...anyway it has been a few months..that's all...he says.."i thought you had some money?"...and you are somewhat taken back by that question...(why would he ASSUME that??) anyway...you just say.."i just live from paycheck to paycheck like most people"...what are you getting at???..."he just says again. "OH i just thought you had some money.." I just said, "why would it matter.." he just said ...oh it doesn't...NOW I AM suspicious!!! what is he getting at??? HOnest opinions!!! Some guys are trickery like some women...go figure!!
2006-09-02 08:21:22 · 4 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Be EXTREMELY suspicious-!! Yes - some men are like this, as well as many women being like this! This person obviously has some big need/want for money which you are probably unaware of. I certainly do not know the circumstances involved, but -- a person who is obviously looking for money might just have a drug problem, a gambling problem, or some other addiction problem. This is just a generalization, of course, but - I would be on my toes about this person if I were you. Again, I am only generalizing, but - make sure that you are not involved with any person who might steal from you!!
2006-09-02 08:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very suspicious. It does sound like he may be looking for a free ride in life. Does he have a job? Is it a good one? Why doesn't he have a house of his own? Where does he live?
I think these are all important questions to ask yourself. I must admit that when I date someone there are a few things that must be in place before I date them: they need to have a decent job, not to support me but so he's not looking for me to support him; and in no way do I date a guy who lives with his parents - for whatever reason!
And from my own experiences, this has been a good guideline to stick with for myself.
Good luck.
2006-09-02 15:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thought u had lots of money from the way u dress, the car u drive. he might of thought u had plenty of money and was after u for that. i suggest u break it off now and tell him that u have no money at all and exagerate a bit, tell him that u're in debts up to ur neck and that the house, car, and clothes aren't urs they belong to ur parents and sister. if he's indifferent and insists on being with u then it's only a question, but stay sceptic, he might know that u're just testing him. so y waste ur time, dump him
2006-09-02 15:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you break it off NOW!!
That's a major warning sign!
2006-09-02 15:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋