If you were seeing a woman on and off,she got pregnant and you doubted that the child was yours, Would you be there during the pregnancy? Or would you stay away until the paternity test? And why??
2006-09-02 07:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by I love my baby boy!! 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I would be there just to prove to her that I loved her no matter what. Besides, it's not the childs fault and they should not have to go through life without a father. Even if it wasn't mine, I might claim it to give the child a better life.
2006-09-02 07:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds of it being mine would depend on how much I was around. For example, if the child had about a 70% chance of being mine, I'd be around about 70% of the time. The reason why, is because I would want to be around the child if it was mine, and I wouldn't want to make the mistake of caring for it too much or too little depending on who's it is. That doesn't take into account weather the other possible father(s) might bolt. Maybe in that case, I might help raise it even if it's not mine. If I bolted, I have the right to do so, but that's not what I'd do, just because it's not what I believe in.
2006-09-02 14:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends entirely on the circumstances, I think. How strong, for example, do I doubt the child is mine? And how do I feel about the woman? I think I, personally would have to wait until the paternity test because I don't want to be involved with a woman who will be dating me, sleeping with me, and sleeping around on me at the same time. Hey, if she would do it before we got married, she would certainly do it afterwards, too!
2006-09-02 15:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mike Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would b there but i probably wouldnt live with her.. id show up and maybe get her some things for the child but once the childs born i would want to know if its mine or not... and even if t wasnt mine i would still like to be in teh childs life in some sort of way. especially if the real father doesnt take responsability
2006-09-02 14:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for the parternity test if she wasn't sure who the father was. Why should any man be made a fool of by having to look after another man's child?
2006-09-02 14:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a guy, but I've been around long enough to know that men don't like responsibility. even if the guy knew it was his, there is a chance that he would still say it wasn't just so he wouldn't have to be there. not all men do this, but most of the stories I have heard with this same scenario turn out this way.
2006-09-02 14:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd demand a DNA test immediately. I have no more trust in the female gender.
2006-09-02 14:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by beefstrokinoff39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get into "on and off" situations, we are on or we are off period. Then this situation does not arise! If we are on and she is pregnant by me I would sure as hell be there for her 1,150%.
2006-09-02 14:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Latin Techie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋