Whats my problem with girls?

Question

I seem to hav a problem getting "fruity" with girls. Kind of..
With my last girlfriend it was all sort of rushed n everythin, n i find it hard to make a move on girls, and to even think about it makes me scared. do u think thats natural because i hav only ever had 1 gf and im a wuss?

I find kissing is great if they make the first move, but nethin after that, i can see myself just running away from in my brain. and trust me when i say this, im definatley gay, men do not interest me in the slightest, where as women do..

Someone answer plz!?! :-s

PS, i am female..

Answer 1

I think that you lack self confidence be that in yourself or your sexuality!..

Answer 2

first of all edit your question you are going to get a lot of mean answers (at the bottom you meant to say i am definately not gay but it says i am definately gay) if you are scared of girls there is nothing you can do about it. a lot of girls think shy guys are cute (i do) and when it comes to girls trying to rush you, let her know you just aren't that kind of guy, you like to take your time. if she lets you take your time and get to know her you wont be nervous to kiss her ( or other things) because you will have had time to figure her out a little. if you are nervous about asking girls out that is ok too. don't ask her "out" just very causually tell her you think she is cool and you think the two of you should hang out. i really hope i could help.

Answer 3

Rachey, are you a man or woman? there seems to be some confusion!

either way, you need an understanding girlfriend who will help you to take it as slow as you need, and I mean slow in that department, cause fast and furious is not attractive, get a book, read it as your going, it'll slow you down, you can have a laugh with the girl, and both enjoy yourselves, once you've learned to make her happy, you relax, and trust me, with all the gurns people pull, s e x was never meant to be taken seriously. relax, have fun, that's what it 's there for.

Answer 4

You lack self confidence. Maybe when you fancy a girl, you give yourself no chance to get her. You should trust yourself and go ahead. Don't be afraid to hear "no' if ever you proposed someone. Don't get discourage. A saying says: Practice makes percfect" and this applies in many cases, including yours. So make a move, don't be afraid to talk to girls openly, be more confident, and don't get dejected when you hear no. Go for another one!
Good luck and give me 10 points for my answer.
I know its the best! :)

Answer 5

Don't rush things. A girl likes to go slow and easy.She doen not like to be pushed. When the time is right you will know. Something to think on---it takes time for a flower to bloom.

Answer 6

Just let things run their natural course sweety. Take things as they come and just go with how your heart feels. If you are not ready for more, then you are not ready! Why you want to force it? Just be happy and go with the flow :)

Answer 7

Try drinking alcohol a little bit before approaching girls and well see.it works for me all the time with a little bit of alcohol cause it calms down your nerves

Answer 8

get to know her as a person and it wont seem so scary also it will help you to be able to judge her mood ect, then when your relaxed and she is willing make your move, try starting with holding hand and hugging its easier to transition, you'll get better with practise, don't worry and good luck

Answer 9

How old are you? To ask this you have to be pretty young. Just let it flow and everything will happen like it is suppose to.

Answer 10

Don't worry about it I like it when my bf and I make the first move together. And then we make the other moves together.

Answer 11

u need to stop playing with madam palm and her five lovely daughters so much. keep some testosterone in your system